"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Travel memoir21

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I've been trying to figure out the best way to have some sort of social circle going for me and I think I figured it out. As a Man you gotta some sort of Project or divine, sacred Objective you're trying to achieve at the moment. Right now I love to write, I'm working on my book of Poetry, but I also got a new job as an assistant and superivising observer in my Parent's hotel a few blocks away from where I live. You might be saying, ' Wow! congratulations, you just got a new job!' lol....I don't need the money, I'm a retired Air Force Veteran who can comfortably live here with my pension. But the thing is, this is an interesting business thing I took an interest in, I'm sort of interested in possibly franchising if my parents decides for me to be sole owner once they step down. The staff here are okay but it definitely beats jerking off to female punk rock hippies all day lol. Please stay away from Fapping it's very bad for you, I can write a book on that. Anyways, if you have a project, or business or side hustle with a group of people that you're passionate about, maybe it can take a majority of your social life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Travel memoir21 said:
I've been trying to figure out the best way to have some sort of social circle going for me and I think I figured it out. As a Man you gotta some sort of Project or divine, sacred Objective you're trying to achieve at the moment. Right now I love to write, I'm working on my book of Poetry, but I also got a new job as an assistant and superivising observer in my Parent's hotel a few blocks away from where I live. You might be saying, ' Wow! congratulations, you just got a new job!' lol....I don't need the money, I'm a retired Air Force Veteran who can comfortably live here with my pension. But the thing is, this is an interesting business thing I took an interest in, I'm sort of interested in possibly franchising if my parents decides for me to be sole owner once they step down. The staff here are okay but it definitely beats jerking off to female punk rock hippies all day lol. Please stay away from Fapping it's very bad for you, I can write a book on that. Anyways, if you have a project, or business or side hustle with a group of people that you're passionate about, maybe it can take a majority of your social life.
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Prob. the first thing you should do is remove a picture of yourself here. It's a good start.
 
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