"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Working on a home gym......

speed dawg

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What do you fellas recommend. Can't get too much, gets expensive. I'm gonna get a pull/chin up bar with dip handles. I can do pushups anywhere. Maybe a few dumbbells? I'm not sure about the weight. Keep in mind I'm just looking to stay in good shape. My heavy weight lifting days are over, as I've had knee surgery and back surgery.

I may get some of those rubber bands or something. Any ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eminence

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buy an indoor pool and put a squat rack on the bottom of it, youll probably need some scuba equipment too. less strain on the knees.

otherwise go buy a gym membership, it will cost you the same amount of money for a 2 year membership then what you will spend on a worthwhile home gym that you''ll get anything out of. I learned this the hard way unfortunately.
 

penkitten

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perhaps you could start small and buy equipment one piece at a time as you can afford it.
i would start with something that i would use the most, in case i never had the money to invest into everything i ever wanted.
 

int3l

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a proper home gym is one of life's great luxury's.
 
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