"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Working Example of the Advantage Women Have

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I have a new female neighbor who moved in. She's an attractive older lady but she is around age 60 and has a bit of a belly and varicose veins. I would rate her about a 5, though she was probably an 8 in 1980.

Anyhow, last night she called to ask me what places she should visit because she was bored. I told her I had plans and I recommended places she could go. When I got home at 1AM she was still out. Today we spoke and she explained that a 25 year old marine picked her up and took her back to his place (30 miles away) last night.

Now ask yourself: do you really think a 60 year old man with a pot belly who was a 5 on a scale of 1 to 10 could pick up a 25 year old woman who was in great shape and have her take him home on a Friday night - within hours of meeting?

Now consider that traditionally older men had a much easier time with younger women than vice versa, so if anything this would translate to a 70 year old man picking up a 25 year old woman.

Synopsis: the dating pool is absolutely, grossly skewed in favor of women, and even old 5's can pretty much score at will.

I rest my case.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil said:
I have a new female neighbor who moved in. She's an attractive older lady but she is around age 60 and has a bit of a belly and varicose veins. I would rate her about a 5, though she was probably an 8 in 1980.

Anyhow, last night she called to ask me what places she should visit because she was bored. I told her I had plans and I recommended places she could go. When I got home at 1AM she was still out. Today we spoke and she explained that a 25 year old marine picked her up and took her back to his place (30 miles away) last night.

Now ask yourself: do you really think a 60 year old man with a pot belly who was a 5 on a scale of 1 to 10 could pick up a 25 year old woman who was in great shape and have her take him home on a Friday night - within hours of meeting?

Now consider that traditionally older men had a much easier time with younger women than vice versa, so if anything this would translate to a 70 year old man picking up a 25 year old woman.

Synopsis: the dating pool is absolutely, grossly skewed in favor of women, and even old 5's can pretty much score at will.

I rest my case.
GO WHINE IN THE STREETS
 

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Umm.. I'll let other men take home the 60 year old fat b$#$es thank you very much. Leaves the younger and attractive ones for me. I don't see what the problem is, are you jealous? I find nothing appealing about 60 year old fat women.
 

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I knew the dating game was lopsided in favor of women but I didn't think there were younger guys that would stoop to that level lol. I guess this story demonstrates why its lopsided if some young dude would bone a 60 year-old woman. That's fine with me though because that just leaves the younger ones for someone with higher standards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I regularly bang a 50-something because I'm bored or I'm in the mood and don't feel like ****ing around with schedules or other BS that younger girls might have at that time. That doesn't mean she holds some power over me or that something is skewed, it means both she and I have sexual needs and we get them taken care of.

Text 1: Hey want to get some tonight?
Text 2: Sure come on over

No analysis required.
 

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The funny part was when she said "I guess young men just have this fantasy to be with an older woman."

I wanted to say "No, they just want A woman - any woman."
 

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the reason women have the advantage is because just about every guy goes to talk to a girl and then gets the girls phone number and call/texts within a week. I am so happy PUA came about. think about this. a pretty good looking girl probably has 5+ guys give her number a weekend. men let this get out of hand.
 

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Reminds me of an old Seinfeld episode

Elaine to Jerry: "Sooo, what would you do if you were a woman?"

Jerry to Elaine: "If I were a woman I would be hanging out at the docks waiting for the ships to come in"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tiguere said:
GO WHINE IN THE STREETS
^This

bigneil said:
The funny part was when she said "I guess young men just have this fantasy to be with an older woman."

I wanted to say "No, they just want A woman - any woman."
Sad thing is most men are like this about sex. I think men need to use their relationship filter for sex. Because we know men are super picky about relationships in the way women are picky about sex. So if guys did this itd even out the advantage women have.

Thing is, for a smart man, a real man who knows HE is the prize, women do not have the advantage, HE DOES. I have said in another thread that I regularly forgo easy sex because I find it beneath my standards to fvck for the sake of it when I know I can do better.

Lastly, there are guys who like older women. While I am still young(24 going on 25) I want to be able to experience what it feels like to have an older experienced woman. You know, that feeling that I am this new kid on the block and shes really teaching me and showing me what good sex is supposed to feel like. I like the whole idea of that. Ideally Id get that feeling from an over 35 gal. I want her to be fit of course.
 

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thedude4242 said:
the reason women have the advantage is because just about every guy goes to talk to a girl and then gets the girls phone number and call/texts within a week. I am so happy PUA came about. think about this. a pretty good looking girl probably has 5+ guys give her number a weekend. men let this get out of hand.

If 1 girl gets 5 guys numbers in a night, doesn't that mean each guy gets 5 girls numbers in a night?

Or are these 5 different guys all aproaching the same chick, leaving the other 4 chicks out of the question? Are there 20 more guys for those 4 chicks? Whatever.
 

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If there's 1 guy banging several chicks it's a problem, and if there's a chick banging several guys thats a problem too.

This doesn't make any sense. Women just want guys out of the first percentile. Sure they want a strapping funny intuitive smart guy, but we can all become that.

The problem is not them, it's us. If we didn't have problems we wouldn't be on this site. There's not really a point in complaining. Women have been reading Vogue and Elle girl since they were 10 years old. They have an advantage when it comes to game. They can read facial expressions better and they have better peripheral vision.

All we have to do is learn learn learn to use it to our advantage. The trick is to become stone cold. Make those girls unable to interpret you. It's like what prostitutes do if you go to a strip club. They hang on to you and say hiiiiii BB i love your hairrrrrr won't you come with me for a lap dance?? if we say nahhh, they just walk off, and we somehow miss them.

Try and grab a girl by the waist, press her against your body, and then just walk off. She will be like OMGWTF just happened??

Besides that, women are slaves to their emotions. We can learn to control our emotions. If you do that, women will be drawn to your demeanor.

They say 10% of guy's get 90% of the pvssy.

We are the ones with the advantage because we can become part of that 10%. Just look at Neil Strauss with his small stature and his bald head.

Also, there's a market for everything. Some girls have fetishes for little bald men.

Perpetual self-improvement guys, perpetual self-improvement.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Yay...more overanalyzing.
For real.

Let guys like this whine about how crappy their dating life is as if it applies to all men. Let's go bang some broads.

I couldn't imagine sitting around worried about the "advantage" women have in dating. All I'm worried about is myself and the 10 girls on my radar. And I'll be perfectly fine if I only get with 2 or 3 out of these 10.

As far as the 60 year old woman....good for her. Get some while you can. I know I am.
 

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Let guys like this whine about how crappy their dating life is as if it applies to all men.
F*ck you Iceberg. I bet you haven't been laid in years.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To the Contrary.

Womans position in dating is much worse than ours. Ok you found one of the few ladys which still can have a lot of men when they are older. But I am shure this is not just because she still kind of looks good - i bet its due to her charme, humor and personality.

Look at all those no brainer, no humor, no character no nothing girls out there thinking they can do anything because they look good. They may be a staight 10 - but for how long. Time runs out fast for them and if those girls are around 30 or 35 and still single you know what the name of the game is. Its not like on television where there are all those super successfull sex and the city like middle age single woman which are so pleased with their lives. No when they start aging and noticing that their beautiy will not last long the name of the game is to find someone who can put a ring to their finger as soon as possible. Because when their beauty is starting to fall apart they got nothing left.

Mature men who take care of themselves and are charming can easily have girls half their age any time they want. And look at people beyone their 60s - all the woman have left are their husbands. Thats why they alsway go on about how often he goes to the bar or whatever. For men at this age. the contact to other men becomes more and more important. Look at all the old fellows sitting at the beach or sitting at the cafe or bar, having fun with each other giving a F**k about any womans oppinion.

So believe me - our position is much better. Its just the media which nowerdays semmes to have an ideal of the successfull, almighty and independent woman which can do anything by herself and does not need a man for anything except as a sex toy which she can have whenever she wants. If you ask me this is a load of bulls**t. I realy dont mean to bash or dis woman here but look at society. If woman have advantages - who gives them to them? Who invented and enforces the women's quota in corporations? Who put woman on a throne and aids narcissistic behavior ? I guess thats men.

I heared from tales of the past that there was a time when men knew what they are worth and that they are the rulers of the world and the highest goal for a woman was got get married becaue unless she was she was not concidered to be a real woman. Today we totally turned it around - men divine their manhood with having a girlfriend or lots of woman.

We need some men-emancipation...
 

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IShotTheSheriff said:
To the Contrary.

Womans position in dating is much worse than ours. Ok you found one of the few ladys which still can have a lot of men when they are older. But I am shure this is not just because she still kind of looks good - i bet its due to her charme, humor and personality.

Look at all those no brainer, no humor, no character no nothing girls out there thinking they can do anything because they look good. They may be a staight 10 - but for how long. Time runs out fast for them and if those girls are around 30 or 35 and still single you know what the name of the game is. Its not like on television where there are all those super successfull sex and the city like middle age single woman which are so pleased with their lives. No when they start aging and noticing that their beautiy will not last long the name of the game is to find someone who can put a ring to their finger as soon as possible. Because when their beauty is starting to fall apart they got nothing left.

Mature men who take care of themselves and are charming can easily have girls half their age any time they want. And look at people beyone their 60s - all the woman have left are their husbands. Thats why they alsway go on about how often he goes to the bar or whatever. For men at this age. the contact to other men becomes more and more important. Look at all the old fellows sitting at the beach or sitting at the cafe or bar, having fun with each other giving a F**k about any womans oppinion.

So believe me - our position is much better. Its just the media which nowerdays semmes to have an ideal of the successfull, almighty and independent woman which can do anything by herself and does not need a man for anything except as a sex toy which she can have whenever she wants. If you ask me this is a load of bulls**t. I realy dont mean to bash or dis woman here but look at society. If woman have advantages - who gives them to them? Who invented and enforces the women's quota in corporations? Who put woman on a throne and aids narcissistic behavior ? I guess thats men.

I heared from tales of the past that there was a time when men knew what they are worth and that they are the rulers of the world and the highest goal for a woman was got get married becaue unless she was she was not concidered to be a real woman. Today we totally turned it around - men divine their manhood with having a girlfriend or lots of woman.

We need some men-emancipation...
I agree wholeheartedly.
 
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