"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jair213

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sup guys i started working today at some cherry plant, working around woman in the age range of 16 through 50.. 80 percent of the woman are between 16 through 30, some nice hb9's..

theres aboout 50 woman and only 6 of us guys... the first thing i notice was that this dudes acted like thirsty idiots around them... checking them out looking pathetic, i was a bit nervous at first aint going to lie, i couldnt resist but to check out some of them out lol.. i was wearing a shirt that says ''bodybuilding'' making it abvious that i work out wish i hadnt wore that shirt, but you could tell on my physicked also, some were checking me out.. woooohoo!!

anyhow, how do i act upon so many damn females its ridiculous i know, im such a late bloomer /:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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youngmack

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Hopefully your attractive because this will work.... Continue to do you. focus on your job , if you see one of the girls you like approach them and game them. But DO NOT be like the dudes and be thirsty.

While the other dudes are looking desperate and needy for those girls you will stand out and look like the confident catch and girls love this. Then they will see that you arent giving them attention like the other dudes are and they will try to seek it. Now you're in
 

Young Juan

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Be yourself, go after the ones you want, DO NOT GOSSIP, DO NOT KISS AND TELL, focus on your job, don't do sh!t for them you don't want to do just to be nice, and overall, STAY STRONG AND CARRY ON!

p.s. WTF is a cherry plant?
 

BigSmooth

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Ah yes...working at a cherry plant by day...and popping cherries by night.

Sounds like the life.



But as others have said, go about normally. Exude your natural confidence and be the man of the plant, which should be easy since you I assume are pretty big considering you bodybuild.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jair213

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update!

yes i am kinda big!

gaming this girl as of now, really flirty, gonna proceed to ask her out tommorrow, ill let yall know how it go's. :)
 

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in the work place asking woman out in US and Canada considered sexual harrasment when a woman dont want that so be careful dont be under the mercy of any woman by asking her out , instead try to go to have lunch with them then from there you can be more free without the risk of being fired
make your self you are in interested in them , dont do any thing because they are women
and just wait for the chance to get you together with a girl because they sense when you are trying to find a way to talk with them which you look needy
 
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