"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so heres some background info. This girl at work asks me out to drinks, i say i can't i have to fix a tire ( i actually had a date). But I later tell her, lets go grab a quick drink. So we go, and the topic of her age comes up. I tell her she's drunk she doesn't know her real age. So after my date with another plate, i txt her on my way home. This is the convo. Do You think i came on too strong?


me: hey you, sorry to have bailed on you...Ready didn't want to, you were looking cute...I'll make it up friday.
her: ur sweet! i understand! did you get the tire flipped & fixed?
me: yes i did
her: very boy-next-door of u!
me: lol, nothing i can't handle
her: even (21 yr old) me?
me: if ur 21, no problem...if your 28, i hope you can keep up
her: obviously you haven't played with 28 yr olds. Maybe you'll learn.
me: schools out for the summer, but im more than ready
her : the lesson plan if flexible. Plan accordingly.
me: flexible is good, i like flexible
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i think the attraction died off towards the end.
 
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at least she remembers about the tire
 
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daygameguy said:
i think the attraction died off towards the end.
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is this supposed to make him feel bad or something. Effing troll. my comment would be the opposite of what this troll said
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think i did pretty good. I at first thought the last comment would be too strong, since I meant flexible as in flexiblity, and being able to do some freaky shiet. But then again, she is taking me out for drinks this friday, so it cant be too bad, lol
 
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is this supposed to make him feel bad or something. Effing troll. my comment would be the opposite of what this troll said
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From the tiny text chat that he posted, its tough to actually judge the emotions that were coming across. I gave my opinion. You can give yours too. But there is no need to act macho, trying to call other people trolls. If you wanna disagree, be straightforward, judging people makes you look insecure yourself.
 
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i was just calling you out on your comment , no need to make a scene out of it
 
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