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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Work/ Personall problem...im about to go crazy!!! HELP!

Ken785

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Ok so heres the situation guys...

So heres the situation...

So ive been working at this car dealership for 3 weeks now. Me and my cousin dan got hired there.The guy that brought us in knows my other cousin which is dans older bro...(they were old friends before but then that guy basically backstabbed my cousin and got him jumped at a club) So he brings me in and starts to train me...but he is very disrespectful talking about i never do things right...i never listen and stuff like that...basically yells at me everyday like im a fvckin kid.

He never gives dan sh!t ...im assuming cuz dans a big guy and is short tempered...he will beat his arse if provocked. Plus he knows his older bro which he is already on bad sides with anyway. Dans gets put on suspension because they find out he doesnt have a valid drivers license. So now im by myself until he can get it back and get rehired. So one day when im bout to close this deal and i show fag the deal in front of the customer and he looks at me and the customer and says..."you know youre ripping them off right??" I was furious! i couldnt even look at the customer anymore....he later relized what he did and later tried to apolize...which i know was bullsh!t cuz hes a fake mofo.

So the next day my a real good girl friend of mine came in for an interview with him and i was sitting right there...the whole time hes slamming me about how i always come late to work (only happened a couple times) how i never listen, how i always ask questions...(arent you supposed to do that when youre new?) in front of me embarrassing me in front of my friend.....

after the interview was over...i got irrate at him...and told him basically "fvck you i quit!!!" came into the main managers office and told him so and he said why??

whats wrong...i told him everything that happened...how he purposlyfvcked me over from that deal i had...how hes disrespectful to me, how he disrespected me in front of my friend purposly in front of me. I just lost it....the managers got mad at him for fvcking me over on that deal and said if i had told them that day they would have told him to pack his sh!t and leave. I was so mad...i wanted to fight him! iHe told me to meet him at the cafe where my other cousin was...and hell kick my a$$...i said go ahead lets go!....after that the manager told me to get in his office...i told him i jsut wanted to go home...he told me to promise him no fighting...and not to quit over an argument...he said if he let me go home then i promise to come back tommorow and sell more cars...i said ok...he said theres a lot of potential in me and he doesnt want to see me waste it.

Now...i know it wasnt the DJ thing to when when i flipped out...i should just concentrate on my job...but what do you do when someone pushes you too far?? what would you guys have done??

should i just quit this job? Would i look like i have a tail between my legs if i do?? i really dont feel comfortable working with him cuz right now every second a see him i want to go crazy on him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You want to come close loans and do Real Estate with me? I won't fuss at you unless you're not getting stuff done.

:)
 

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The best thing that you can do is go silent on the other person provoking you. The less they know the better,just stare at him,straight face,eye of the tiger in your eye. Don't say anything,just stare at him when you two are alone. Remember there is never any reason for someone to screw you over like that,you havent done anything wrong besides show up late....Some people make big deals about that,some dont depends on your boss.

Just talk to the people above him,remember he can't fire you if you have done nothing to deserve it.

Good Luck!
 

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He has Father Issues and He loves you like a son!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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