"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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work or school????

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Which is better, work first then school? or school first then work??? Well i want to go to college, but almost all of my peers don't have plans to enrol since they want to work first.. I\'m confused on what to do first... help me out guys....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alex DeLarge

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just go to college and work part time. If you work first you're just going to be working a job that you hate and probably making no more than $15 an hour. Just go to school for 4 years, get a job you love, and wind up making more than that. When you start school late (like me) you're gonna wind up graduating when you're 25 when you could have a masters by that age.

Do what you prefer or what you're obligated to.. But if I had the oppurtunity I would definitely just do school first.
 

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arthur_frasier said:
Which is better, work first then school? or school first then work??? Well i want to go to college, but almost all of my peers don't have plans to enrol since they want to work first.. I\'m confused on what to do first... help me out guys....
Are your peers the type of people who have career goals, or are your peers the type who want to get married at 22 and start popping out 10 kids to live in their 2-bedroom house?

College, by no means, is a guarantee of success. But a college degree provides you with options. I feel that skipping college might limit you.

But, do whatever suits your lifestyle.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Iceberg said:
Are your peers the type of people who have career goals, or are your peers the type who want to get married at 22 and start popping out 10 kids to live in their 2-bedroom house?

College, by no means, is a guarantee of success. But a college degree provides you with options. I feel that skipping college might limit you.

But, do whatever suits your lifestyle.
Yup, you can get a degree.. But if you don't know how to market yourself with that degree and network, it'll get you nowhere.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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everyone's right, school should be done first... If you'll get an associate/bachelor's/masters degree you'll get higher pay... If you have financial concerns, don't worry about it... There are a lot of scholarships you can take advantage of... Try surfing the net for financial assistance for school.. One you can try out is collegeoptions.us and their college representatives will help you out... Do good in school and you'll see success in the future... Smiley
 
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