"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Work on your physique!

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IMHO, this is the most important aspect of your physical looks after decent looking teeth.

I have read that "height is the most important physical trait a man can possess"

HOGWASH!

A 6'2" out of shape man, is still an 6'2" out of shape man and won't attract many hot women even if he is tall.

Take a look at what guys are walking around with the hottest chicks.

It is usually the guys with developed upper torsos and flat stomachs.


I am not necessarily talking about huge muscle heads either, but a body like Brad Pitt or a swimmer.

This includes, short men, tall men and men with very average looking faces.


You don't see that many out of shape men walking around with hot chicks and if you do, the guy probably has money.

GET TO THE GYM!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Veridin

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Belmar2009 said:
I have read that "height is the most important physical trait a man can possess"

HOGWASH!

A 6'2" out of shape man, is still an 6'2" out of shape man and won't attract many hot women even if he is tall.
And an athletic guy won't attract many women if he is wearing a wedding dress. Etcetera. But height is definitely the one most important aspect of a guy's physique. It's just that we don't talk about it so much because it is something you can't do anything about, as opposed to muscles and fat. But yes, of course a guy should work out.

You don't see that many out of shape men walking around with hot chicks and if you do, the guy probably has money.
Even fewer short guys walking around with hot chicks than out-of-shape guys walking around with hot chicks!

Sorry. You made the thread about physique, I know. But you mention height so much, I felt compelled to answer.
 

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Veridin said:
And an athletic guy won't attract many women if he is wearing a wedding dress. Etcetera. But height is definitely the one most important aspect of a guy's physique. It's just that we don't talk about it so much because it is something you can't do anything about, as opposed to muscles and fat. But yes, of course a guy should work out.

Being tall is definitely an advantage, but come on!

You think a 6'3" guy who is has a huge beer belly is more attractive to women than a 5'8" guy who is in great shape, just because the guy is tall?

This can't be true.

Like a said, a tall fat ass, is still FAT
 

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I'm going to point this out once.

Workout at the gym if you want to work out at the gym. Do not do it only for women. If you do you are letting random women control your happiness which I strongly recommend against.

Back to lurking.
 

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I agree with this 100%. I am 5' 8" tall and have a surfer build - broad shoulders, strong arms and legs. Not all due to surfing now because of work commitments and when I'm free the sea is like a washing machine most the time - but I hit the gym instead.

There are very few guys my age that are in the shape I am in - say 1%? Big turn on for women is a 50 old head on a 20 year body because its so rare.

As for height? thats not a problem at all. I prefer tall women and have no problems in getting them because I am in shape and no guy will hit on them when they are with me.

Bottom line.... A women needs to feel safe and needs a MAN to protect them. That is a primitive desire hard wired in them. If you are a skinny wuss or a fat slob your chances are limited.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you got money, just get lipo or a tummy tuck or some other similar sh*t!

If you ain't got money and you're outta shape, you'll have to hit the gym and get right in 6 months. Height really ain't a factor either.

Otherwise, you're not allowed easy access to a hot chick unless you're rich.

When a guy gets rich, he's GUARANTEED to have a hot girlfriend or as many hot chicks as he wants, no matter how bald, fat, ugly, or short he is!

So if you ain't got time to work on your physique, work on getting your first million!
 

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nismo-4 said:
If you got money, just get lipo or a tummy tuck or some other similar sh*t!
No! This defeats the whole point of getting in shape.

Surgery is a pathetic way out, "results" if you can call it that without any of the less tangiable benefits working out provides. Among these are confidence, better posture, better self image, muscle and functional strenth in all areas of life (money can't buy this, only dedication and effort), higher testosterone/metabolism, higher sex drive, etc etc..

ultimatly a "tummy tuck" might get a bit of fat off you, but it wont address the underlying problem, or give you any kind of decent physique.

and to the OP, spot on, the most important alteration any aspiring DJ can make is getting in awesome shape.

Cure.
 

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Espi said:
This is a good thread...

Whatever keeps you going to the gym, just do it baby!

Women, in large part, keep me going to the gym. We're men, after all, and our lives are driven by sexual impulse and ego.

Rock stars learn to play guitar because they like making lots of money and fvucking lots of girls...they feed their sex drive and their ego. Same thing with guys who learn to build their body with weights... :)

What I LOVE most about being fit is that women notice the results of my hard work! Just like a rock star, I don't have to prove anything to any woman. OK...well, sort of...but you get the idea!

Having a great physique speaks for itself! I can walk into a room filled with hot girls and feel confident....all I gotta do is wear a t-shirt. THAT instills ROCKSTAR caliber confidence, and women WILL notice you...you WILL stand out from the average sedentary pack of men!
BINGO

I've been on both sides (fat then lean now fat again:rolleyes: )
and you have to do "less" work (gaming) then you do when your fat
also what motivated me to go back in the gym is I wanna wear those tight muscle shirts again ha ha

Good thread OP
 

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Theres some natural pro bodybuilders at my gym with amazing physiques (they arent freaky giant, but still pretty huge), and they have the hottest girlfriends ever.

This proves it.
 

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Belmar2009 said:
Being tall is definitely an advantage, but come on!

You think a 6'3" guy who is has a huge beer belly is more attractive to women than a 5'8" guy who is in great shape, just because the guy is tall?

This can't be true.

Like a said, a tall fat ass, is still FAT
Where did I write that?

I wrote that height is the most important aspect of a person's physique, as research also shows.

How does "most important aspect" translate into "only aspect", do you think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Veridin said:
And an athletic guy won't attract many women if he is wearing a wedding dress. Etcetera. But height is definitely the one most important aspect of a guy's physique. It's just that we don't talk about it so much because it is something you can't do anything about, as opposed to muscles and fat. But yes, of course a guy should work out.

Even fewer short guys walking around with hot chicks than out-of-shape guys walking around with hot chicks!

Sorry. You made the thread about physique, I know. But you mention height so much, I felt compelled to answer.
"thecurtainfalls" gave me a negative rep for this post, instead of posting in the thread to argue. Isn't that lame?
 

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For every bloke who thinks height is the be all and end all to a great physique, then I can assure you that there will be a number of guys like myself who are not necessarily tall, but have put in the gym time and really worked on our physiques. The gym is a great leveller, you can have an amazing physique at any height. Tallness may help to a degree, a smaller guy in tip top shape who dresses well, can still, win.
 
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