"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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WORK IN PROGRESS: What should I do?

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The story so far:

28-12-08:
Cold approached HB8 Korean at a train station in London Sunday afternoon.
Stopped her told her she looked lovely and conversation ensued from their.
So very direct game!
Turns out she's only been here 3 months English student.
Chatted a few minutes (English not that good) got her email and then asked for her mobile, she gave it to me. I gave her a missed call there and then and told her thats my number ;-) (that way i knew she gave me right number)
She was in a rush and a bit confused about the trains. Gave her directions and i left.

28-12-08
Normally after a cold approach I wait a couple of days but i decided to text her that evening...
"Hi K...hope i didn't confuse you with my directions earlier today...did you manage to get to your appointment in time J"
No response

31-12-08
Text her.. "Happy New Year K....best wishes for 2009...J x "
No response

TODAY:
Was planning to contact her.
My options:
1. Call her....may not answer considering she hasn't answered

2. Text her something like...
" Hi K....hope your well. i just wanted to say it was unusual the way we met the other day, but I saw you standing their and you looked nice. i wanted to meet you so i did. You don't have to be hesitant...it would be nice to talk...how are you?"

3 Or call her and if she doesn't answer send the above text.

So what do you think gentleman, what would be your plan of attack ;-)

Remember her English is not that good and even though I got her contact details I hadn't made her fully comfortable.

So I've got to try and make her feel comfortable.

Let me know how you think i should play this.

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she hasn't responded twice, chances are she's not interested.

That text you mentioned is probably one of the creepiest I've seen in awhile.

This isn't the movies, women don't respond to the "you look nice I just wanted to meet you, I'm not a harmful guy" kind of text positively.

I have two rules when it comes to text messaging. I only text a woman if

1. It's directions to get somewhere to meet up

or

2. It will make her laugh

Anything else you send over a text message is pointless and usually not helpful in pursuing a woman.

I suggest you just leave this chick be and move on.
 
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yeah I agree with WC2, that text is a little on the creepy side...and definitely needy too.

Two strike rule man, I know its hard to do if you had your hopes on this one but delete the number and next her!
 
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