Work in Progress: My Masterpiece.

[Patrick124]

I must say this 1.5 years of Don Juanism has taught me a lot in this game of females.
In fact, the hottest girl in my grade who i used to pathetically talk to online and probably weird out[8th grade..] and i have english together.
She thinks i'm a riot, i'm hilarious. And I've been tryin to create some attraction there this year, not putting much effort into it though.
Last thursday she goes: "Hey Pat, I've always wanted to go to hooka, will you take me?" randomly[we had just started talking more.] After class that day she chases me down to give me her #. I *apparently* am dumb when I think this means "lets go on a date." lol. this iwll come up later though.
I was like "sure, fri night." then she was asleep fri when i called her n she said she'd call me when she woke up, which she did at 8:30. So I bailed, I dont wait.

During the next week i was liek "yo lets try this again friday." she was down but had to do a Partners Club Dance till 9:00. She told me to jsut "meet her out there." So i got this feeling she wasn't under the impression it was a date, I was kinda pissed lol[didnt say anything to her.]
My boy who i was with, called her best friend n goes "Pat said it was a date." idiot. apaprently she thought I was bringing people.
I just called her n told her no one wanted to roll with me cause it was too much $bling$ ha. She still wanted to meeup n roll to a small party, but "had to go home first."
And I'm pretty sure she was actually just rolling to another party, that I wouldn't ahve been invited/allowed to. lol. We hang out with different crews at school, so yeaa.
beat. Am i WRONG in thinking it was a date?

Anywheres, where should I go from here? this is the most cautious I've been with my game, tryin to take up a BIG challenge. This girl has never gotten with anyone in our grade, only once with someone a year older. so i'm attempting the near impossible.
help me?

 

[Donsing]

I don't know about your date question but I can think there could be only 2 reasons why she is doing that. 1) She is just being flaky or 2) She might just be busy. You are trying to hard because you keep asking let try again on friday. Ask her to do something with you after 2 weeks and if she does that again well NEXT.

 

[Fitch]

What you need to do now is create an illusion that you moved on. Give her a little taste of what it is like without you--or to have less of you (less attention that is). Don't drive her to the point of breaking away from you, but show attraction to other hot girls in your school. When I say Hot, I really mean HOT! Because if this girl is so amazing as you imply, then you need to get her a little competitive. Don't go for anyone lower than her--in appearance and personality. There's got to be someone.

So treat this popular b1tch as a distant friend. Don't worry about how she perceives you to be. She wants to play with your mind? Show her how's it's really like to lose someone special like yourself. Clearly she likes you, but she needs a good dose of reality to understand how unique, and desirable you really are.

Give her some clarity by teaching her to appreciate what she has before its gone.

This is the best way to go about it. Stop focusing on her too much. Move on....create the appearance of moving on. And then get back with her at the right moment.

Note: Don't get to carried away--i wouldn't advice dating other people, or else she might. Just get her to a point of jealousy. You know her best; you know the limits.

Go for it.