"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hurt16

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hey guys. heres the story. ive started my first job at a super market its great. and in the first few weeks i went to start on an ile and their was some hot chick doing my work. i got worried and checked my roster. she saw me but i dont think i looked agreesive to her. probably just a really annoying person who ccomplains about things or something. Im onlky trying to write the whole story so far . so the next week or so lkater we had to crush things together and theirs was like one sentence of small talk and we brushed hands once lol. the next day we had a stocktake and she seems to want to talk to me whenever shes near me and she came and helped me in stocktake once. i dont want to really talk to much during work. so to me it seems like good grounds for me to start a relationship. i plan to aproach her after work and have a good chat when i get the chance but it doesnt seem like that will present itself for a very long time. i could find an oppertunity somewere. anyway guys i dont have much practicle experince but im building my skillswith everyone in general. all i want to know is waht u guys think. whether it be assesment of why shes attracted to me or what u think shes thinking. how i shpould get to know her whatever. i just want imput so please post some comments to give me a broader way of thinking the "she wants me" . anyway. thnks a heap. c yas
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jeffthechef

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you're thinking too much..that's the problem with most people today...they think too much..too much reason/logic..

your excessive thinking is the result of a desire for reason..you want a reason to approach..a reason that proves she's interested in you...a reason for why this happened, etc..

there are no reasons...just live in your true nature...

you find her interesting...tell her you guys should hang out this weekend..then tell her to give you her number...and smile

then, she'll say yes or no depending on how she feels..

people really make it harder than it really is..by thinking...don't think about whether she's interested, what you will do if you get her number, what you will do if you don't, what will happen if she rejects you, bla bla

it's all pointless..just get her number and take her out..Simple.
 
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