"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sin Verdad

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I usually don't approach at work because, well, I'm supposed to be working. I work at a womens' clothing store. Once and a while there will be a hot broad around and I won't approach her, mostly because I don't want to get in trouble with my bosses.

But sometimes like today I'll make eye contact with one of them and I'll be hanging stuff up and they'll pass my aisle two or three times, even if I change isles and usually it's completely unnecessary for them to go down that specific isle. Should I talk to these women or just keep approaching other places (which I'm finally getting good at).

EDIT: Also this place has really cheap lighting and I'm insecure about how I look there because it seems to bring out every mark that was on your face ever.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eccentric

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Approach them. Who cares what your bosses think. As far as they're concerned, you're helping a customer.
 

blinkwatt

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Sin Verdad said:
Once and a while there will be a hot broad around and I won't approach her, mostly because I don't want to get in trouble with my bosses.
I used to think that then I realized that these chicks kept eye contact with me for a reason. They would pass me by several times every once and awhile(dead give away,if they have a question they ask).
 
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