"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Words of Encouragement: Heart over Material things

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Sheding some light here on SS.

It may affect people's perception and the human heart.




But the LORD said to Samuel,

Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him.

The LORD does not look at the THINGS people look at.

People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the HEART.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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News flash, God is not real.

Stupid Christians think the Bible is the end all be all to everything.

I'll bet 100$ the op never read the Bible.
 

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Life is not bible, people assign more value to beautiful things than to ugly ones. You still can do it being ugly, just have other things that women find sexy.
 

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Life is not bible, people assign more value to beautiful things than to ugly ones. You still can do it being ugly, just have other things that women find sexy.
This is not all about the bible, but all about the word of encouragement itself.

If you haven't noticed I don't use the word "bible" here on this forum.

Good point by the way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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News flash, God is not real.

Stupid Christians think the Bible is the end all be all to everything.

I'll bet 100$ the op never read the Bible.

hahah God is not real? People like you, I truly pity.
 

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hahah God is not real? People like you, I truly pity.
But how do you know he is real? Im not into going public telling people how blind they are for believing religion, or vice versa - for not believing, but I need a proof to believe something.
 

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But how do you know he is real? Im not into going public telling people how blind they are for believing religion, or vice versa - for not believing, but I need a proof to believe something.
It only requires faith my friend.

That is all you need.

FAITH.
 

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King Saul stood a full head above the crowd in height. He was God's chosen king, but then he made some poor decisions as king that made God angry. So then God was like, "look, mother fvcker, not only are you going down, you're losing your throne to a short, smelly, illiterate goat herder. He's going to vanquish the biggest, baddest soldier in the world while you and your army cower in fear."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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