"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Word from the wise....STOP TRYING to get the Chick JUST DO IT!!

Badmannaz

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ok seriously i came back to these forums and i see alot of silly stuff like tricks to get girls what to do how to do it....im sorry but guys you are in the little leagues if your still trying to figure these things out...

THE truth is chicks F*cking hate pick up lines!!...they've heard them all, they know when your lowering your voice, and they can sense if your a P\/.SSY OR a MAN... and i'm not talking about regular girls..(meaning the chicks we dont dream about boinking but we end up settling with) no i'm talking about the girls all the guys talk about and think about $cr3wing. You honestly dont need pick up lines i never use them...you just need YOU!!

now to make sense of that im saying stop trying to be something your not because when you do you get nervous because your not SURE of yourself...

YOU have to start excepting the person you are and what you are capable of..you have to be so sure of who you are and what you can do know one can tell you about yourself because you look and feel exactly the way you want at the time..and if it was a problem you would fix it..

because a guy who's not one with himself can get rejected and feel LESS of a person because she didnt want him....

But a guy who is totally aware of his talents and abilities..if he gets rejected he's on the next girl because he SERIOUSLY FEELS THIS CHICK IS MISSING OUT AND SHE REALLY IS!!

the hot girl likes the second guy....seriously i've been through this...when you can reach the point of total self awareness you can have a female tell you "you will never Scr3w me" and days later i was F*.ckin her..

this only comes with practice...stop trying to figure out girls and start figuring out girls meaning u need to get yourself a friend who is a girl..

think about it? In every james bond movie he's always with a girl..any guy you've known who was a player talks to females on a regular basis he didnt wake up a learn how to do it...now granted some are more naturally charming but that doesnt mean you can't learn how to conversate properly with the opposite sex...

but you have to start getting off the forums and getting out there...you waist time reading when the real thing is waiting for you... :kick:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so what do we say when we see a beautiful woman?

What does being yourself mean? you gotta say something right? you have to convey your personality. I don't think anybody from this forum uses pickup lines. Some do, but they make it playful, so its doesn't seem like a line.

Just aiming at the pvssy, like your post implies, and thinking you're the sh1t, and just going up to her and saying "BLAH!", how in world is that gonna get you any sort of result?

Guys who are good with women, have tremendous experience with women, that is why they know exactly what to talk about, so they flow like water, and be themselves without copy pasting a routine. But unless you get that amount of experience and success, how do you just be yourself!??
 
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Badmannaz said:
YOU have to start excepting the person you are and what you are capable of..you have to be so sure of who you are and what you can do know one can tell you about yourself because you look and feel exactly the way you want at the time..and if it was a problem you would fix it..
I love this. This is heaven on earth when this happens.
 

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daygameguy said:
so what do we say when we see a beautiful woman?

What does being yourself mean? you gotta say something right? you have to convey your personality. I don't think anybody from this forum uses pickup lines. Some do, but they make it playful, so its doesn't seem like a line.

Just aiming at the pvssy, like your post implies, and thinking you're the sh1t, and just going up to her and saying "BLAH!", how in world is that gonna get you any sort of result?

Guys who are good with women, have tremendous experience with women, that is why they know exactly what to talk about, so they flow like water, and be themselves without copy pasting a routine. But unless you get that amount of experience and success, how do you just be yourself!??
1. What to say to a beatiful women? what ever comes naturally from the bottom of your heart, with sincerity and convection. lol @ these pua guys who sound like robots with no swagger or personality

I agree with the rest of the post, being on the field will give you the experince you need. I've learned 70% of this crap on the field before I even logged on here!!
 

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I know what you mean by swagger and personality. But it works better in night clubs. During day time if you come up with your playa swagger, it can creep people out. I speak from my personal experience. But i can see what you mean about being natural and stuff.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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