"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Word for word conversation, good stuff

Dannyrt34

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Alright I know lots of guys have trouble with actual conversation and flirting with girls, so I just got done talking to the girl I met recently, and here's our conversation. This is some good stuff, and it will work with about any girl. Also I learned from experience that the better looking of a guy you are, tone down the ****iness and it's ok to be nice at times. If your good looking and ****y, you may come off as stuck up, so I try to be nicer now, as long as it's on my own terms and I can see she's very interested. Just to give you some background I met this girl at Giant Eagle, she works there, and she is definitely a HB9.5. We exchanged phone numbers and aol screennames, so here's my online conversation with her. Keep in mind I changed the screen names for privacy.

Danny: happy birthday HB!
HB9.5: thank you!!
Danny: your welcome hun, hope ur havin a good one
HB: haha i amm..n thanks bunches!
Danny: what else do u have planned for the rest of ur bday??
HB: nothingg cuz i have to wake up early for senior pics for the yr book lol
HB: soo im gona celebrate this weekend!
Danny: awww lol, oh you better, what you gonna do??
HB: im not sure yet..gona b a suprisee i think
Danny: haha ur favorite, surprises!
HB: oh yes!
Danny: did u get anything special today besides a bunch of nice birthday wishes?
HB: moolaayy n i get the rest sat!
Danny: haha oooh ok, u should spend part of your birthday weekend at sandcastle
HB: i do wana go there soon haha
Danny: yeah me too!
HB: lol
Danny: me and you are meeting down there one day this week ok!
HB: haha okay! u n yer boys n me n my grls lolol
Danny: haha yep!
Danny: me and my nuccas
HB: thats my word
Danny: i know i heard you use that term a while ago haha, i'm stealing it
HB: haha you wanaaaa bb meeee!
HB: lolol
Danny: i envy you HB, your a hot one, who wouldnt
HB: haah yer such a drkk lolol thankss!
Danny: yes i am a dork, but only on wednesdays
HB: hahha
Danny: did u go anywhere today?
HB: out w/ my mom for a bit then i had cheerleading
Danny: mm fun, i'll have to show u some of my crazy cheerleading moves sometime
HB: hahaah oh yah?!
HB: lol
Danny: yah, did i ever tell you i was a cheerleader
HB: shutup!
Danny: one of the best too
HB: yerr lienn haha
Danny: lol i'm very serious
HB: nu uh
Danny: lol u don't have to believe me
HB: hahah okay i do
HB: lol
Danny: but i did, i could do those things where you stand on the other peoples hands and stuff
Danny: hahaha
HB: haha go up in a lift
Danny: i even dressed like a girl, it's called powderpuff
HB: hahah
Danny: one more thing, your a senior now hun! congrats on that too
HB: aweee thankkk youu
Danny: it's ur last high school summer vaca ever!
HB: OMGG SHUTUP
HB: HAHA
HB: yer gona make me cryy lol
Danny: don't cry, i cheer ya up, i'll admit i cried when i graduated
HB: aweee
Danny: but you'll be ok! just make sure ya live it up this last year
HB: i plan on it haha
Danny: good good, i just realized this is the first time i talked to u in what seems like quite a while
HB: omg i kno!! haha
Danny: sorry bout that, i try to stay close with everybody
HB: haha its kk!
Danny: we'll find something to do next week
HB: yeahh
Danny: lol oh yea i started my own myspace finally, it still sucks tho i dont have much on it
HB: send me a request!
HB: lol
Danny: will do, hang on gotta find ya again on there lol
HB: haha click the link in my pf silly
Danny: haha i so silly, didn't know it was on there
HB: lolol
Danny: there u are, (myspace name), thats cute
HB: haha
Danny: there ya go! special friend request for ya
HB: haha got it
Danny: i only got one pic, but i'll have plenty by the time i come bak from florida
HB: hahha
Danny: i'm goin there with (cousin) and (herfriend) now
HB: haha nice ncieee
Danny: and my pap got us a nice car to pimp around in while were down there
HB: nice!!! haha
Danny: oh i know!, i'm so bored tonite what is there to do on a wednesday nite?
HB: nothing ever haha
Danny: i hate it!
Danny: did i tell u i had to wear a thong when i was a cheerleader
HB: okk bee quitte haahah no u didnt
Danny: me didn't like that, it did give me alot more respect for u girls tho
HB: ahahahha
Danny: and eyeliner, didn't like that either, eyes kept watering and i couldnt get it off for a week
HB: ahahahaaa yuppp
Danny: i so glad i can relate with you about this girl stuff, sets me apart from the rest of the guys eh?
HB: haha truee trrueee
Danny: i might as well just have a girls night out with you haha
HB: hahah
HB: slumber parties n all haha
Danny: yay, and u can braid my hair, and do my nails
HB: ahahah
HB: oh yea!
Danny: u know, girl stuff, lol, whatever it is u lovely girls like to do
HB: hahah
HB: see noww..we couldn't have a "guy talk" haha
Danny: i'd probably be seen as a lesbian if we had a slumber party tho, i'd probly keep tryin to flirt with you
HB: lololol
Danny: and then i would be asked to leave, and then i'd refuse, then a struggle would ensue, so i'll just stick with my guy stuff
HB: hahaha
HB: yer too much
Danny: haha i know, i need to stay calm
HB: haha
(I check my myspace and seen she sent me a comment on there)
Danny: aw thanks for the comment babygirl! i just seen that
HB: aweezz yer welcome lol
Danny: i worked hard on that, i spent like 20 minutes doin it
HB: aweee
Danny: my myspace, i have like ADD or somethin haha and can't sit still long enough to actually make it good
HB: hahah
Danny: so miss 17, how does it feel to be 17?
HB: aweesommee haha
HB: actually dnt feel ne different
Danny: aww, well thats a good thing, i hope u don't change too much, ur a nice fun girl the way you are
HB: awee thank you
Danny: i'm no longer a teenager in 3 weeks today
HB: Uh oh!
Danny: well 3 weeks yesterday
HB: lolol
Danny: i know! its gonna be weird, but i'll stay strong
HB: haha
Danny: but u have a wonderful night hun! happy birthday again theres ur bday smooch (smooch face), now only 16 more haha
HB: hahah yer so cute!! thankkk youu
Danny: no ur a cutie, but i'm going for now, good night, sweet dreams
HB: hah thank youu!! gniite!!
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Whats so good about it? Just seems like a normal conversation mostly...but you could probably chill with her she seems pretty receptive to you.
 
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