Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Haven't seen it with every chick, but it's been there with some.joekerr31 said:btw, i haven't encountered that thick white stuff yet, but i've seen it in pornos.
if someone knows for sure what it is i'd love to know.
im just crossing my fingers that i never encournter it in real life.
joekerr31 said:btw, i haven't encountered that thick white stuff yet, but i've seen it in pornos.
if someone knows for sure what it is i'd love to know.
im just crossing my fingers that i never encournter it in real life.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
We're we talking about what produced it, or what it "comes out of" (is projected out of), quotes being your words? The reason I'm asking is because they aren't one in the same. Sure, of course some gland actually produces it. Glands "secret". If you'd just say, "sorry, I was wrong" people won't get confused.Francisco d'Anconia said:Yeah you're right, ejaculation comes from the paraurethral gland which is near the opening of the urethra.
Which is produced in the para-urethral gland. "Para" means "near" in medical terminology as in it is produced near the urethra. Just making sure that the confusion isn't being misinterpreted.azanon said:...To squash the confusion here goes: When a woman "squirts", the liquid is projected out of the same hole (the urethra) that she pees out of. But the content isn't urine. There!