"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Woould You Join MTV's Next?

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I got a casting call for Next. I always thought the show made most of the guys look like asses. Particularly, you have very limited control over your frame. Then again, the whole experience might make for an interesting story...if I don't get Nexted right away by some tasteless ho. What do you guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sure, do it. It´s all scripted anyways. I watched it today and there was this one chick from bangbus on the next bus. (no joke!)
 

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ChrizZ said:
sure, do it. It´s all scripted anyways. I watched it today and there was this one chick from bangbus on the next bus. (no joke!)
what the heck is bangbus?
 

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what chick was it?

ok, the ONLY way i would be on the show is if I am the dude picking from the 5 girls.

Remember, they will cut the film to make you look like a dumbass, so, if i went on the show as one of the 5 guys:

I would just be quiet the ENITRE time. let's see how that goes :)

alternatively i would fu ck around so much with the girl, id step off the bus id look at her and say - NEXT!!! she's have this WTF look on her face? and id say "ha, just playing come here" - boom she is in my frame.

let us know how it goes, and how did u get the call, did u apply?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, and hell no. I ain't that big of a stud so I would probably be instantly nexted. I'm average I guess and some of those guys look great. I guess I could give it the old college try. Then again I could show how good my game is. Hmmm, I guess since I like people and I'm cool with people I would go.
 

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Bangbus is "reality porn." Basicly, some guys drive around in a bus and act like they are picking up a strange girl, and they talk her into getting on the bus, and then they convince her into having sex on the bus and video taping it. It's not really reality. It's set up. The girls know what is going on before they start taping it.
 

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If you do it, think of every imaginable scenario possible and know ahead of time how you'll handle it. You could be the coolest, most quick-witted person; but if you leave it all to chance, you could end up looking stupid on National Television. But if the show really is scripted, not much you can do there. David D's friend Craig did a good job on Elimnidate. He obviously prepared and the girl ended up choosing him; he came across as really cool... he even threw some obvious DYD material out.
 

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I'd do it. I don't even care if I got next'd, the TV time would make it worth it. TV time on MTV automatically = chicks.
 

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I have a friend who'se been on MTV dating shows twice.They called him back a few weeks ago for another show. I'll ask him what the deal is, if he gets paid,how much?, ect. Apparently can't be too bad if he was willing to do it again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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