Wont give it up

[whatdude]

I've been with this girl for three months now, and everything seemed perfect at first. We can't go without seeing one another or we'll go nuts... i Know this sounds retarded, but her and i have serious feelings for eachother, or so I think.

Every time we go out to eat I always end up paying for both of our meals. She lives a good 30 miles away from me.. and I drive to see her almost every day, she doesn't come here because I wont let her... as I stated in an earlier post - I'm embarassed of my parents' lifestyle. Anyway, the price for travleing to see her AND paying for meals all the time is adding up. She doesn't even say thank you.

AND... we hardly do what I wanna do, shes always wantin to go shoppin n sh1t.. yea, i enjoy being with her but it bores the fvck outta me. And one would think, after doing all this sh1t with her, i'd be gettin tons of sex from her.. but nahh.. as of late, i get nothing - ZILCH. She teases so fvcking much.. and I get nothing. I don't understand it. Help.. anyone.

Later

 

[niceguydying]

Here lately I have been asking for advice, but if you are ineterested, here is my two cents...
I have and always will have a problem with a women that can't say the simple and respectful "Thank You" whether it is giving her compliments or paying for food. And my friend you should as well!!! I am in the process of divorcing and I have had dealt w/ two women since I filed. Have you considered doing things that aren't expensive? I understand eating, but it doesn't have to always be first class. Three months and No Sex??? What is up with that? Teasing sucks and I am here to tell you! Hopefully you aren't like me right now. I have the "Oneitis" syndrome. I have never been into dating several women at once, but I must start and you should think about it as well. Now I am not saying you are being used, but you should be really asking yourself this.

Powerful words are THANK YOU!!! If she can't say this, it's like she is expecting you to front the bill each and everytime. Proceed with caution because if you aren't careful, you could be bled dry and left with a broken heart. Combine those two together and you are in a world of hurt!!! I reallly do not think you want to be both.

I wouldn't even ask her intentions, but I would try and change up your routine and see how she reacts. If her attitude changes then you know what she about. Sometimes we are only seeing the women's good qualities such as her beauty and we F**K up and miss the big picture. I just went through this and it sucks!!! Hope this helps and may you get what you want and want what you get!

 

[JonJack]

"Thank you" isn't powerful. It is like the word "Sorry". It holds no purposeful meaning other than to convey some sort of formal courtesy. Whether this courtesy is sincere and truly felt can't be determined just from words. And how many times do you seriously believe that when a person thanks you for something, that they really appreciate what you did?

Listen here whatdude. You got yourself in this mess with a girl that you don't even 'like' in the first place. You might say that the two of you go nuts with each other and that you have serious feelings for each other, but if you're gonna go around complaining about her 'expecting' you to pay, her not giving sex to you, her always deciding to go shopping and whatever else, then you better start reconsidering whether or not you truly like this girl.

Don't you think it's stupid that you can convince yourself that you like this girl so much, but on the other hand, have no difficulty in stating all her flaws that you dislike? Don't you think it's stupid that you're doing all these things and 'hoping' to get some sex from her but aren't and you're now complaining that you should at least be getting it from her?

If you're incapable to realize that you have all the power to end this misery of yours, you better stop thinking about her and start thinking about 'fixing' yourself. I just can't stand it when people come on here complaining about this and that when they are in full control of ending it or just stop doing it. Why torture yourself man? Do you believe that a life without her would be worse that you have to put up with all that stuff that you think is shyt? Pull yourself together and don't be so pathetic.

 

[flows101]

Read The F***ing Don Juan Bible It Has The Answer To All Your Questions.

 

[Tomatoes]

Sounds to me like shes using you as her own personally ATM. Plus your getting no sex. Man......Sort that **** out.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Do your wallet a favor and drop her. She's making daily withdrawls but not letting you make a deposit into her pvssy account.

And please don't fool yourself into believing the whole "soul mate", Dr.Phil and Oprah bullsh!t either.

Watch what happens when you sac up and pull away and not pick her ass up or payfor dinner or have other "mysterious" plans. The b!tch'll come runnin'. Then you'll understand she's nothing more than a fvcking

ATTENTION WH0RE

So let it be written . . .

 

[JC9]

Here's a couple of good rules.

If you haven't had sex by the end of the third date, move on.
If you've had sex, but then it dries up and slows down after the first or second time, move on.

If your not having crazy monkey sex all the time when the 'bloom is on the rose' and its all new and fresh, what do you expect to happen when the relationship progresses into more of a comfort stage?