"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wont blow d!ck..

illmatic1005

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ok..my gf's a freak..but not really
she will do all this stuff to get me horny and know what she is doing and why she does it..when are i get a hard0n, she likes it...

but then why...

the other day she did all this stuff to get me hot and in the mood...she even sticks her hands down my pants and says 'take it out'
then she plays with it and i look at her and grin and she just says NO...and she sits across the couch with her legs crossed, not mad or anyting..then after 5 mins she sits close to me again..

shes done this in the past a lot too..she'll even say stuff like 'no not tonight, tomorrow'

she gives me head, but not often..she says that she thinsk sehs not good and she doesnt wanna be bad

so at the end of the day i go home with a sore d!ck, but not satisfied..until 2-3 weeks later..

whats the problem?

p.s. - once she asked me if she satisfied me enough and i said not really..sne she said 'fine ill do it more often', but never did..grr
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PHAT Rabbit said:
If you wish to express your concern over not getting off, explain to her that you liked it so much you wish she would've kept going.

ooh i did..and then she thinks..'are u using me' and 'thats all u want'

grrr
 

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Me personally, I would bring another girl over and have her demonstrate on you. Tell her it's strictly platonic and for demonstration only. Or you could watch porno together. That might ease her up.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
ok..my gf's a freak..but not really
she will do all this stuff to get me horny and know what she is doing and why she does it..when are i get a hard0n, she likes it...

but then why...

the other day she did all this stuff to get me hot and in the mood...she even sticks her hands down my pants and says 'take it out'
then she plays with it and i look at her and grin and she just says NO...and she sits across the couch with her legs crossed, not mad or anyting..then after 5 mins she sits close to me again..

shes done this in the past a lot too..she'll even say stuff like 'no not tonight, tomorrow'

she gives me head, but not often..she says that she thinsk sehs not good and she doesnt wanna be bad

so at the end of the day i go home with a sore d!ck, but not satisfied..until 2-3 weeks later..

whats the problem?

p.s. - once she asked me if she satisfied me enough and i said not really..sne she said 'fine ill do it more often', but never did..grr

You need to get closer with her. The fact that you have to ask people on an internet message board about an intimate problem with your GF speaks volumes to me. She's your GF for crying out loud. Communicate better to her and make her feel close to you, but don't pressure her at the same time, though.
 

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Is she actually your girlfrind or is she some fb?

Plus, my gf wouldn't do anything with me either, but I managed to get her to start. The way I did it was through making her feel special and horny.

Plus she would probably be more comfortable if she would study up on it and how to give good bjs.

comic_relief
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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