"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wont blow d!ck..

illmatic1005

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ok..my gf's a freak..but not really
she will do all this stuff to get me horny and know what she is doing and why she does it..when are i get a hard0n, she likes it...

but then why...

the other day she did all this stuff to get me hot and in the mood...she even sticks her hands down my pants and says 'take it out'
then she plays with it and i look at her and grin and she just says NO...and she sits across the couch with her legs crossed, not mad or anyting..then after 5 mins she sits close to me again..

shes done this in the past a lot too..she'll even say stuff like 'no not tonight, tomorrow'

she gives me head, but not often..she says that she thinsk sehs not good and she doesnt wanna be bad

so at the end of the day i go home with a sore d!ck, but not satisfied..until 2-3 weeks later..

whats the problem?

p.s. - once she asked me if she satisfied me enough and i said not really..sne she said 'fine ill do it more often', but never did..grr
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PHAT Rabbit said:
If you wish to express your concern over not getting off, explain to her that you liked it so much you wish she would've kept going.

ooh i did..and then she thinks..'are u using me' and 'thats all u want'

grrr
 

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Me personally, I would bring another girl over and have her demonstrate on you. Tell her it's strictly platonic and for demonstration only. Or you could watch porno together. That might ease her up.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
ok..my gf's a freak..but not really
she will do all this stuff to get me horny and know what she is doing and why she does it..when are i get a hard0n, she likes it...

but then why...

the other day she did all this stuff to get me hot and in the mood...she even sticks her hands down my pants and says 'take it out'
then she plays with it and i look at her and grin and she just says NO...and she sits across the couch with her legs crossed, not mad or anyting..then after 5 mins she sits close to me again..

shes done this in the past a lot too..she'll even say stuff like 'no not tonight, tomorrow'

she gives me head, but not often..she says that she thinsk sehs not good and she doesnt wanna be bad

so at the end of the day i go home with a sore d!ck, but not satisfied..until 2-3 weeks later..

whats the problem?

p.s. - once she asked me if she satisfied me enough and i said not really..sne she said 'fine ill do it more often', but never did..grr

You need to get closer with her. The fact that you have to ask people on an internet message board about an intimate problem with your GF speaks volumes to me. She's your GF for crying out loud. Communicate better to her and make her feel close to you, but don't pressure her at the same time, though.
 

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Is she actually your girlfrind or is she some fb?

Plus, my gf wouldn't do anything with me either, but I managed to get her to start. The way I did it was through making her feel special and horny.

Plus she would probably be more comfortable if she would study up on it and how to give good bjs.

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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