"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wonders Never Cease

Tictac

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I met her (45, Chilean, 5'6", blonde, blue eyes, built, sexy as Hell) a year ago at a local block party. We danced it up at a local bar and did some sloppy making out. Didn't see her for over a year after that.

Two weeks back, she sends me a Facebook (where I mostly follow my kids) friend request. Saturday night, we're 'chatting' on Facebook while she's at work and we agree to meet up for a drink at 10:00 PM. Great time! We take a walk and get all hot & heavy on a dark local park bench. I mention in passing (as a joke) that I have to be in Miami on business later next week and that she should come along. She agrees, buys her own plane ticket!

Stay out there and busy brothers. You just never know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Congrats chief. That will make for a great "business" trip.
 

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Well done Sir!!
 

Alvafe

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when girls out of nowhere send me msg asking how well i'm, the question always come to my mind "so, who dump you?"

but nice one tictac :D
 

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Dear Tic-Tac,
I have travelled in Chile and meet quite a few Chilean Women on the Argentine Tango scene....I am told by those who marry them that they are very decent people...The Women seem to find joy in pleasing their Men,but I would observe that they are very Traditionalist in their attitudes to Svexual morality,one strike and you are out!...The Argentinian Girls having a strong infusion of Italian blood are quite tolerant of their Men wandering a little!...Your Ladies Fair Hair suggests she might be one of their very much respected German minority.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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