"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey sup fellas.. i was wondering what's the best way to get this girl to be my gf. weve hung out in the same group of ppl at school all this year but we never really talked to each other. just last week we started talking and hanging out. she already started barrowing my clothes. we talk on myspace and text till 2am every nite since thursday. last nite after work she called me up and told me come up to her house. but nothing really happened we just sat in the truck and talked from 9pm to about 12...im thinking thats a sign she wants me but she had ur little 10 month nephew with her. so is that meaning she just wants to be a friend and using he nephew so nothing would happen between us? if u guys think she does want me how would i ask he out? just go in for the kiss wen i pick her up to take her to school?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your slowly moving into the friendzone, you haven't got much time left make a move very very soon before you lose it! just escalate soon as possible and if it fails you were too late because i've been in this posistion some with mates of mine and she is interested or was or won't be very soon.

So make a god damn move.
 
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As Analyzeit clearly says, you got to make a move, if she wants more than a friendship, kissing her should'nt be a problem at all, you just need the right time and atmosphere.
 
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