"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wondering

Metro3pilot

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I wanted this waitress, I told her boss ( also a female )and now her boss runs around trying to set us up and telling me she will help me out ....

I guess she must have helped anyway because
I now have her phone number and a tentitive date set up with this chicka on Sunday ....

anyway could her boss helping me, backfire ? if so what should I look out for

Thanks Fellas
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charm

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Well, her boss might have set things up for you. You still need to confirm with this chick or are you going to just show up and hope she shows up too?
 

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Her Boss did not really set things up,

she just put in the good word, gave me the girls schedule and made sure I would be seated in her section ..... can anyone say fishing in a barrell ?

I had to number close and ask her on a date ..... I will call later this week to confirm ....
 

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Ok you got the group date with her. Leave the boss out of it from now on...
 
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