"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Metro3pilot

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I wanted this waitress, I told her boss ( also a female )and now her boss runs around trying to set us up and telling me she will help me out ....

I guess she must have helped anyway because
I now have her phone number and a tentitive date set up with this chicka on Sunday ....

anyway could her boss helping me, backfire ? if so what should I look out for

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm

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Well, her boss might have set things up for you. You still need to confirm with this chick or are you going to just show up and hope she shows up too?
 

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Her Boss did not really set things up,

she just put in the good word, gave me the girls schedule and made sure I would be seated in her section ..... can anyone say fishing in a barrell ?

I had to number close and ask her on a date ..... I will call later this week to confirm ....
 

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Ok you got the group date with her. Leave the boss out of it from now on...
 
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