Wondering what to do next

[NunJuan]

Hello,

Had a first date recently. I wouldn't say things went for the best but we kissed for a little.
I wonder when I could ask for a second date. She said she was going to party thu, fri and sat. I'm not at all on her plans. She might wants to show me she's not mine or independent.
Either way, I don't know how to pull this out. Any advices?

 

[Jair213]

I think she has no interest. Partying all those days? Haha Smh she most likely is avoiding you.

Just be like ''have fun'' then contact her again in about a week to re schedule. If during this week span she doesn't contact you its sign of low interest.

 

[NunJuan]

Its her birthday monday I think. Anyway women tell you one thing and they act completely differently. I wonder what is hapenning in their mind.

 

[Jair213]

Its her birthday monday I think. Anyway women tell you one thing and they act completely differently. I wonder what is hapenning in their mind.

Dont ever go there and try to wonder wtf is going on in there heads. It'll make you go nuts.
she is either interested or not as simple as it gets bro.

 

[NunJuan]

Thanks for your advices guys. I was dumb enough not to listen to you and notice the obvious game she was playing.

I changed my behavior and I could see her pattern changing. I decided to just give up on her, she was eating too much of my attention. I treat her like I would do with any girl I don't care. I used to answer to one word text now I don't bother.

Not answering does exactly the reverse of what I would expect... She text more, she wants me to answer, she even tries to please me (to comply on what I say). At this point it's clear she is playing with me and she wants to keep me in the game for her fun or a real interest - god knows.

The other girls I had, none of them were players and most of the time they were the one chasing me. First time I ever met a player girl, I feel so dumb now. Worst thing is that I really want this sh!t to work but I know I can't expect anything good from her (2+months relation).

Can you tame a player girl? Or is it not worth the effort?