Wondering what I do next??

[dreamville2311]

Hey everyone been reading this forum for about 2 weeks. Im 21. Can say all this reading has helped me improve my life. I feel great and been working out and jus basically improve my life. But last night at work i been applying whatever I read and learning. Actually landed a number from a really attractive chick probably about a 8 or 9 on a scale of 1-10, through drive thru because I work at a fast food place and there is always hot chicks coming through. But like I said I actually applied what I read on here. I got the number so what do I do next? I mean today's Xmas. And don't wanna come off as desperate or anything. But she was really surprised I even asked for her phone number. And then she drove off smiling and literally Would really like to hit it off with this chick. Any helpful advice would be appreciated thanks. Like I said its my first post. Working on my game!

 

[Meisterman]

Does she have your number too or no?

Also, don't text her today. It's xmas for christ's sake lol. You don't want to give off the impression you have nothing better to do than text a random girl you just met the night prior at a drive thru, on probably the biggest holiday of the year.

I would give it at least a few days if I were you. Even if she is interested, never show her that she has you or that you think she's above you. Because then she will lose all interest anyway. Cuz who would want to hit it off with some dude at a drive thru who spends his Xmas texting a customer he met for 20 seconds the night before?

Just be cool man...remember that you're the prize. If you wanna give it a shot a few days down the road then go for it. But don't come off as needy or clingy. Keep your texts short and concise, and only use them to arrange dates, not pointless chatter.

And you have to treat her like she's beneath you. Even if you don't believe she is, you have to think this way to maintain frame and let her chase a bit. If playing on equal grounds actually amounted to scoring a chick then I would suggest that. But it doesn't work, so you can't do that. For some reason chicks seem to enjoy getting treated piss poorly over being put on a pedestal. So you gotta play your cards right or she'll drop you faster than it took you to reheat her meal at the drive thru last night. Of course this is all premature, you still gotta score a date with her first.

 

[RangerMIke]

Wait a few days and call her.... no texting. Ask her out and get off the phone. Then let us know how that went.

 

[dreamville2311]

Thanks Guys thats what I was gonna do in the first place. Jus needed some reassurance and insight on this. And yeah of course I wasn't gonna text her today lol I'm busy doing my own thing today. But very much appreciated. Glad I found this website. I'm doing great. Has helped a lot. So basically I wait a few days and then call her right? But when I do call her its like I'm setting up a date right? Jus wanna get this down right lol plus shes not the only option.

 

[dreamville2311]

And I jus have her number. Forgot to mention that my bad.

 

[Mr_Maximus]

Wait a few days and call her. Nothing wrong with texting in my opinion though. If a women likes you you could send a smoke signal and she will agree to meet you.

Once you have collected enough numbers you will learn that women give them out easily. It does not necessarily means she likes you or will do anything else.

The challenge is converting these numbers in to meets.

You objective is to get her on the phone. Chat for a few minutes and invite her somewhere to meet you. Dont spend longer than ten minutes on the phone. The phone is just a tool to arrange a meet.

With time you will find that its actually better to arrange a time and place to meet her there and then and then get her number afterwards.

Good luck.

 

[dreamville2311]

Thanks guys for the feedback. Haven't texted or called ye . Haven't thought about it lol but I really appreciate the help and will u guys know what's going on? After I give her a call..