"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lets say you've asked a girl out in a class and she rejected you. And then you find another girl in that class who you would like to ask out.

So the question is, would you feel self concious when flirting with this new girl knowing that the first girl you asked out is watching you? That's my situation and I'm wondering if I'm thinking too much about this, and if I should care less about what the other girl thinks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Her loss.

Chances are if the new girl likes you then the first one will starting being more freindly with you.
 
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Kodiac

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The girl that rejected you had her chance, her loss.
Don't give a sh1t at all what she or anyone else thinks, smile & go for it!!

Don't live your life for others.
Live your life for yourself - it's the only one you have.
 
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Paid Laid & Made

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Forgot that. Who cares, go with the other one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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This would not be an issue if you flirted with all the girls in your class. Think about it...
 
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Francisco d'Anconia speaks the truth. Flirt with all of them. From there, assess the interest level - then ask out the more interested ones. Then the ones with lower interest become more interested.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
Francisco d'Anconia speaks the truth. Flirt with all of them. From there, assess the interest level - then ask out the more interested ones. Then the ones with lower interest become more interested.
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See, it's just that simple...:D
 
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