"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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carrot

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when you go on date and shes fishing your past relationships
how long was your past relationship ,how long was it ,what ethnic type of girl ?


do you answer all or most of them ,
tried to answer vague
how do you deal when shes long term based on her education,work
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dasein

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"Well that particular one was human ("alive" is good too)... what else did you want to know?" is usually a hint enough. Then change the subject to light flirtiness from back and forth quiz time. If you can pull it off right, "Quizzes bore me" can work great.
 

zekko

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I don't mind answering a few basic questions, but really I don't think it's any of her business. For the most part, I will usually just say that those relationships are in the past and I don't care to think or talk about them.

PUAs tell you to be vague about everything lol, so I imagine that's the standard answer you will get.
 

VladPatton

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When she's interviewing you, it can never be good, especially on dates 1 and 2. Bıtch, have some fun, forget about kids and a picket fence in the suburbs for a few hrs.

Super focused on education and work? ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

This chick seems like all business, is she fun at all? Sometimes you just need people to have fun with and forget seriousness and life's heaviness.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Carrot,
Discourage this ridiculous business right from the start...let them know from Question one that you are not playing twenty questions...just say,Oh there are things in both our pasts that are best forgotten,my memories are not always pleasant ones,I prefer to start my life again with somebody nice!
If they persist you just have to be blunt...say that's for me to know and others to find out...I don't want to travel down that road...I try to forget the past...My past is only relevant as to how it effects my future!...hundreds of replies...Say nothing take them nowhere...If they become rude and they can be,then you respond like with like,what is this the Spanish Inquisition?....This is starting to feel like a job interview...
Nothing good comes of dating insecure people!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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carrot

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voice record

thanks guys
I did voice record with spy voice recorder and did review for myself ,
I should have not answered few questions ,either way lesson learnt

she never responded to third date ,in one of my answers i might have not met her criteria
Better post date review ,dont answer questions ,answer question with question or why its important
(some times u get just curious ,but there should be real reason for their questions )
 

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When she grills about past relationships say "Oh. I've had my name and number on a few womens' room walls over the years." Then take it whatever direction you want.
 

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Like most questions by chicks, you hold the reigns in how you want to answer and steer it.
 
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