“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women's Psychology

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I've been trying to figure out women for sometime and after observing certain situations and especially after what people have said, Ive noticed a few patterns.

First off, can there be patterns in human relations?

Ive noticed that most women think they have the 'golden puss&y'.

I've also noticed that women are very mean and that they can change what they say whenever they want to and that their feelings can change almost instantly. There seems to be no honor or loyalty. To me these are VERY important things. Im not talking about women whom you dont know yet, but women who you are in a realtionship with.

Most women feel like they dont owe anybody anything, especially the hot ones. It feels like most women want you to earn their attention, and that they are only being nice to you because you make them feel a certain way. Not because your a good caring person. Feelings over logic?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, they are spoiled, and they have no integrity.

They don't make good girlfriends and they don't make good wives. But if you don't get attached, there are a lot of ****ing and chucking opportunities.

They are emotionally “uncivilized”, and at a less developed level than in poorer countries. So emotional morality is basically non-existent for these females, especially very attractive ones, in the dating game. They just haven’t been taught otherwise. They haven’t been taught that it is bad to whimsically follow your emotions from one moment to the next, with no regard to others. They are emotionally “untrained” and are acting on a primitive selfish level.




That come from an interesting post from a Player on Fastsed...:


This post is a bit abstract and may sound strange in some parts, but it’s an attempt to outline some things, which I feel are pretty interesting on a macro-social level. It’s not meant to cover all aspects, just the key ones imo.

In developed and democratic countries women are basically liberated. The intent is to socially give them equal rights as men (rightfully so). One aspect of that liberation is, if it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. If it feels right, do it. And the big one, follow your heart, is very common advice among modern women. What this results in is the non-regulation of emotions for women (and men too). Men aren’t taught to be strong, and to prevent their insecurities from coming out around women. And women, allowed to freely act on their feelings, naturally weed out these men. And they have absolutely no reason to feel bad about it, because after all they are just following their heart.

Female emotions aren’t regulated in modern democratic societies. It just wouldn’t be PC to do so. Unfortunately, this creates a dating jungle. A very primitive dating jungle. In some ways, you can even say that the emotional development in rich countries is less developed than the emotional development in poor countries.

So you have this dating jungle. Men aren’t taught emotional discipline and self-restraint when it comes to dating, and women, acting on the most primitive emotional levels, basically run the full gauntlet of abuse on these men. They have no training in emotional integrity and go purely on instinct and feelings (some of them socially programmed). They are emotionally “uncivilized”, and at a less developed level than in poorer countries. So emotional morality is basically non-existent for these females, especially very attractive ones, in the dating game. They just haven’t been taught otherwise. They haven’t been taught that it is bad to whimsically follow your emotions from one moment to the next, with no regard to others. They are emotionally “untrained” and are acting on a primitive selfish level. This creates problems even for women. I’ve heard several women complain that they can’t stand other women.

I feel this is how western industrialized countries really differ from poorer countries. In the developed countries men and women lack emotional “training”, on average, in the dating game. Men aren’t taught to be strong and go after their urges. And women aren’t taught emotional self-control and discipline.

So what this does is create two VERY powerful polar opposites. And women, with full permission to act on their baser instincts, strongly reject the men who are given permission to embrace their insecurities and told to hold back on their masculine instincts. Western style culture has successfully created two teams, which can never co-exist.

It wouldn’t be so bad in poorer, less democratic countries, where a man can afford to be more amicable, AFC, and still get laid. And that’s because women, on average, would have more emotional integrity and likely appreciate more a man who is exhibiting some AFC traits (not too extremes of course), and with more room for “error”.

Ironically, social liberation causes emotional enslavement for women. Women, at the mercy of their wild emotions, and having no training or guidance to control them, will ONLY be highly attracted to certain types of men. Men who totally won’t supplicate, have total frame control, and are very socially intelligent. And we can use this to our full advantage, but only as players.

Nowhere but in an advanced democratic country is it easiest to observe primitive female behavior and emotions, to study them and utilize that knowledge for seduction purposes.

As long as women remain “liberated” they will be under the power of the skilled seducer.
 

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Meh, your both wrong, and so is the point from the player on fast sedu.

It's about who is more right... Women fall in love with men who are logically correct. Men fall in love with women who are emotionally correct.

I only really wanted to post on this thread to say that there are more "womens psychology/philosophy" on google than there is "mens psychology/philosphy":p
 

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ethnomethodologist said:
Meh, your both wrong, and so is the point from the player on fast sedu.

It's about who is more right... Women fall in love with men who are logically correct. Men fall in love with women who are emotionally correct.

I only really wanted to post on this thread to say that there are more "womens psychology/philosophy" on google than there is "mens psychology/philosphy":p

Gmm is not WRONG. Quit being so negative about other posters Ethno. Maybe you don't agree with his opinions, but he's not WRONG. You do not know everything, so please don't act like you do. Respect his opinion.

I believe Gmm couldn't have nailed it any better. I strongly agree with your opinion on LDC's and DC's. If you think about what he's talking about regarding female emotions being uncivilized, it brings up a very good point.

Great post Gmm !
 

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Why im asking

The reason im asking about this is because, In order for me to deal with women, I want to have at least a basic understanding of their psychology and their thinking.

My other question, how come when you ask a number from a girl and she gives it to you, she has this look and demenur that she is doing you a favor by giving you her number. Like she looks from the expression on her face like, hey you better be thankful I gave this to you. Instead of like "Omg thanks for coming and actually talking to me, here is my number."

How come guys dont go "Hey bit&ch im doing you a favor by risking rejection and trying to talk to you, you better be glad I asked you for your number"

Instead the girl will act like its their gift to you most of the time.

I saw this girl at the movies, and this gu who got her number, you should have seen her body language, it was like, leave me alone with "haha take my number b*itch, im doing you a favor"

Why?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man, don't peaople read signatures anymore?

When posting on a forum when does the devil advocate cross the line and become a troll?
The thing is, he is comparing western civilization to western civilization. In both areas, females are developing in the same ways, there are female AFC/DJ's as there are male AFC/DJ's.

In other cultures, emphasis, moderation, and regulation are imposed on different parts of the human mind. In western civilization, there is far more room for error, and wrong judgements are rarely caught, parents and teachers generally don't catch bad behaviour until they believe it is too late, or inhumane to attempt to change.

I am not wrong in saying that they were wrong, I am wrong in saying that they were not right.

The reason im asking about this is because, In order for me to deal with women, I want to have at least a basic understanding of their psychology and their thinking.
You want to take advantage of their thought processes?
 

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My other question, how come when you ask a number from a girl and she gives it to you, she has this look and demenur that she is doing you a favor by giving you her number. Like she looks from the expression on her face like, hey you better be thankful I gave this to you. Instead of like "Omg thanks for coming and actually talking to me, here is my number."
That sounds like a girl who might not even plan on going out with you. Hell I even hear my sisters talk about how they give out phone numbers KNOWING they aren't going to take things any further. It's an ego boost for them. They'll only appreciate you asking for their number if they genuinely like you and look forward to dating you. It's the same reason they complain about guys staring at them when they're wearing tight clothes. If the RIGHT guy stares it's a whole other ballgame. "Ooooh! look at him checking me out!"
 

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LOL, oh god, I sense that today is the day something is supposed to change.

I am now expecting the unexpected...

Dude, want to know the psychology behind the girl making those reactions, and speaking behind the men's back the way Tazman is saying? It's not internal, psychology(ie female or male) it's interpersonal psychology.

Interpersonal psychology is where you look if you want to know the reason. The reason behind some guy thinking that getting a number of a girl is end all be all, and why the girl laughs knowing the guy wants it so badly, but it won't mean anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Gys this isnt useful. You can't come from the frame that women are XYZ and expect positive results. Put all that behind you, its irrelevant. Be the guy who she gets obsessed with and leaves her husband to buy that guy expensive trips. Be that ****ing guy man! Live the dream not immerse yourself in the nightmere.

You are prince charming with a twist. You will charm here and you have class but you are no prince, you are something far more sinister and dangerous. Money and hoes is all the brother you is knows :) ALl that other **** is just to trick people into giving you the money and hoes.
 

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HAHA, you sound like chandler and palahniuk mixed together... I can see you making the funny body movements but with soul burning eyes.

Gys this isnt useful. You can't come from the frame that women are XYZ and expect positive results. Put all that behind you, its irrelevant. Be the guy who she gets obsessed with and leaves her husband to buy that guy expensive trips. Be that ****ing guy man! Live the dream not immerse yourself in the nightmere.
Man, that's the reason why women don't like guys to come up to them and start talking like a bookworm. They want people to be semi congruent with their expectations, while pushing the boundaries, because it's thrilling to test the safety nets strength.

Coming into a womens psych discussion, with a mindset argument is sooooo wrong. It's like going into a church, and telling them how to program their remote, it just doesn't fit.
 

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"I've been trying to figure out women for sometime..."

STOP - You can only judge things by what she does not what she is saying.
 

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I like this topic so I'll reply to it from a more neutral standpoint. We all know that life's about competition in every aspect. Although there's education, hard work, and other things the we all use to try and "get ahead of the game", life's still not entirely equal and we as human beings try to tip the scales in our favor.

When it comes to women, we see life's true competition. There are some people who can have any girl that they want, live the lives that they want, and are trully "masters" of the game in every aspect (socially, financially, mentally, etc. I think you get my picture). This is the concept of "DJ" on its truest level.

Then there are others who have "mastered" some parts of the game, (e.g they're great at sports, they have great paying jobs and money isn't an issue to them, they're ok socially, but can't really seem to extend that mastery when it comes to the opposite sex). They're also looking for everyway in which they can move the rest of the scale in their favor.

You can go to sites like this and read some generalities (the bible), see what other people have done to suceed in "the game" (board posts), as well as post theories and questions, but ultimately it still comes down to what you do. Each person has to figure out how he wants to suceed and what he has to do to get there. I don't really have an answer for you except to keep trying and experimenting until you find something that works for you.
 

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im just afraid of rejection

I am just very afraid of rejection so I cant even get the foot out of the door with experimenting.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gmm made a good post.

Anyway, women have their reasons for doing what they do, as men we're not fully capable of understanding them.

But i will have to agree with the OP. when it comes to them there's no such thing as loyalty...they need to be emotionally (particularly) satisfied (if not physical). if you ask me i think most women are fvcked in the head somwhere.

they act on their feelings at the spur of the moment and only learn to regret it later when the consequences of karma kick back. because of this, yes you can all them needy creatures, perhaps selfish even...to fulfill their emotional desires. And when it's fulfilled or she found someone else to fulfill it, you're pushed aside like yesterday's trash.

Women need us more than they realize, even if they are 'liberated'. this new freedom allows them to exercise a larger emotional spectrum, equaling unstable emotional baggage.

but if you ask me, women create more problems in the relationship than there has to be.

I think the debatable issue here is filtering out the truely interested women from the flakey AW's. An uneasy task, but every guy has to do the dirty work.
 

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Ultimately... I think this is just YOUR psychology bro.

Keep growing, "We don't see the world as it is; we see it as WE are."
 

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I am just very afraid of rejection so I cant even get the foot out of the door with experimenting.
With every rejection you will put less and less importance on your interactions with women. For some, this might be quite a painful process but you'll eventually end up being free. Pain makes you free.

As for understanding women soon you'll find out it's better to focus on more important and fun things than to waste your time on trying to figure out why she did or didn't do this or that.
 

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ssj245 said:
There seems to be no honor or loyalty. To me these are VERY important things.
Well your sh!t out of luck my friend.

The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. ----Unknown
Buy a dog in other words if its "honour" and "loyalty" your after. Trust me putting that much pressure on chicks especially our emotionally underdeveloped Western chicks is time wasted. You and her will be alot happier for doing so.

ssj245 said:
Most women feel like they dont owe anybody anything, especially the hot ones.
She doesnt owe you anything.... Thats not to say you cant next her if she doesnt treat you like a King though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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