Womens Past

[Divorced w 3]

Cmon now.

So you're dating a woman, she shows you a text with somewhere a really significant detail she hasn't told you about. You can't blame dude for actually paying attention . Imo this is not necessarily about integrity.

HOWEVER...

I do believe that an experienced man wouldn't be surprised by anything like this. Most women will have done something in their life with some man or men that would make your spine shiver.

Im at a stage right now where I genuinely dgaf. I protect myself by thinking all women are guilty untill proven innocence. She can try to convince me she is different/ not like that by ACTION ONLY.

Read what i said.

i said it’s very unlikely she just offered this information up to him. there’s no sane reason why she would do that.

 

[Gamisch]

Read what i said.

i said it’s very unlikely she just offered this information up to him. there’s no sane reason why she would do that.

Nah didnt go through phone, she was showing me a chat and it was discussed there and she hadnt realized
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all we know is this specific piece of information.

is there a " sane " reason why she would do anything? Since when do we reason that women are "sane"?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Nah didnt go through phone, she was showing me a chat and it was discussed there and she hadnt realized
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all we know is this specific piece of information.

is there a " sane " reason why she would do anything? Since when do we reason that women are "sane"?

He won’t clarify it. What else is there to know. He evaded it for multiple posts.

 

[remarkable]

How much should a womans past affect you? If you are dating one person. For example the girl im seeing admitted to me that she had a threesome with 2 men when she was high on coke and drunk. She claims it wasnt entirely consensual as she wasnt in her senses but I feel like thats what all women say to write off past mistakes. Thoughts?

How did it make you feel?

If you felt a sickening, visceral reaction to hearing about her drunk threesome with 2 bisexual men, that is a normal response. That gut reaction is telling you that she is a walking red flag. There is likely more to her history and these experiences will impact your relationship with her if you are considering her seriously.