"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women's Opinions Don't Matter!

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I think its time to make a thread about this because I've had to say this too many times in answers I've been providing to posts from other men.

Listen up: What women THINK doesn't matter and never has!

Here is what matters when it comes to getting laid/dates:

-What makes her vagina tingle.
-What you can do for her.

THAT'S IT. She doesn't have to like you as a person to f*ck you. She doesn't have to agree with your political or religious beliefs to f*ck you. She doesn't have to like your friends to f*ck you. She doesn't have to approve of your lifestyle to f*ck you. GOT IT?

Too many men here are twisting themselves into pretzels to mold themselves into a certain "image" that will attract women. This retarded mistake comes from years of listening to the idiot media and watching movies that portray men and women a certain way and promote female pedestalization.

What makes a woman's vagina tingle is biological and has nothing to do with her thought process AT ALL. Its your attitude, power and looks that turn her on. What you can do for a woman (how you can improve her life) will make her consider wh0ring herself out to you for the benefit. SIMPLE.

That's all there is to it gentlemen. That is the "mystery" of women. Now go out and get laid!! :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no it doesn't matter...but sometimes it really would be fun to slap the h%ll out of one who is being disrespectful and trying to act like she is something special......
 

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PlayHer Man said:
I think its time to make a thread about this because I've had to say this too many times in answers I've been providing to posts from other men.

Listen up: What women THINK doesn't matter and never has!

Here is what matters when it comes to getting laid/dates:

-What makes her vagina tingle.
-What you can do for her.

THAT'S IT. She doesn't have to like you as a person to f*ck you. She doesn't have to agree with your political or religious beliefs to f*ck you. She doesn't have to like your friends to f*ck you. She doesn't have to approve of your lifestyle to f*ck you. GOT IT?

Too many men here are twisting themselves into pretzels to mold themselves into a certain "image" that will attract women. This retarded mistake comes from years of listening to the idiot media and watching movies that portray men and women a certain way and promote female pedestalization.

What makes a woman's vagina tingle is biological and has nothing to do with her thought process AT ALL. Its your attitude, power and looks that turn her on. What you can do for a woman (how you can improve her life) will make her consider wh0ring herself out to you for the benefit. SIMPLE.

That's all there is to it gentlemen. That is the "mystery" of women. Now go out and get laid!! :up:
This is so ****ing true. The truth is harsh for some. Ive only started the process of changing the way ive been trained to perceive things. But its kinda sad. You would want it to be like you were told it is, but its not this way.
 

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100% agreed with post #777 from PHM!
 

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Nice, PHM.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nismo-4 said:
Men value love, and women love value.

Simply put.
Exactly. In fact, this is all anyone needs to know.

Most men over-analyze women's whims and behavior. Its not complex --> Have something to offer or hit the bricks. It goes both ways.

Its not that different from business. People have needs and in order to be considered valuable you must fill those needs. Most people don't care that iPhones are produced in sweatshops. Apple is mean to people??? YEP! Apple is an a*shole. But guess what? No one cares as long as their iphone does what they NEED it to do.

That's the cold harsh reality of the world --> If you can't fill a need you are worthless.
 

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You can't worry about what she thinks because women have very binary (ie black and white) views on men.

Generally, you are the type she's attracted to or you're a piece of shyte to her. There is rarely much in between.

As Nismo said many times, she wants a guy who made it, not a working man trying to improve.

So if a guy takes women's views seriously, it can be very discouraging to a guy who is genuinely trying to improve himself.

F what women think. Blaze your own trail, and do what you need to do.
 

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Agreed, to an extent... Just for getting laid and casual dating, definitely. But, even if you're looking for an LTR, you still have to attract them, but can't be unlikeable or incompatible in the process. This also varies on the type of woman, and all that jazz.

I think the main problem is, people are looking for relationships with the wrong *****es. All this stuff you say is for the wrong *****es, but people are trying to be likeable and nice and loyal and blah blah... just as you say. They don't care about that, and guys are going about it all wrong. They treat EVERYONE like they're quality, and care about the stuff that matters. Even the party girls, bar trash, dumb skanks, etc.

But again, you still have to attract them... whether quality or not. So, a lot of this stuff still applies.
 
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