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Though more common in Europe than in the United States, some sushi restaurants have conveyor belt service. If you haven't seen it, it goes something like this: a conveyor belt circles around a bar set up in a large oval pattern. Half of it is in the kitchen where the chef makes food, plates it, and puts it on the non-stop belt. It cycles into the dining area and patrons at the bar can pick the dishes that tickle their fancy as they pass by.
"Oooh, that looks good. I'll try that one." Snatch!
Don't like it? Only take a bite and leave the rest there to be cleaned up by the waitress later.
Some sushi is top notch, other pretty ordinary, and some looks great but does not deliver. Still, the patron can sit and passively watch it pass by and pick and choose as much and as often as their heart desires.
This is women's experience on the dating market today.
Because our social norms are as such that men are still expected to do the approaching, women have no incentive to meet us half-way in such a set up. They can sit back and watch the world of men go by in front of them. As various men express interest, they can be a picky as they like because another one is always going to be coming down the conveyor belt soon enough.
How should we expect women to act when their lives are a constant stream of men available for them to choose from?
Entitled
Picky
Fickle
Hypergamous to the hilt
Delusional
And so on.
What's a guy to do? Well, should he want to actually either get laid or date a women, he's going to have to compete with all the other offerings coming into and out of her life on a daily basis.
This is why forums like this always advise eating right, hitting the gym, get your wardrobe in order, and learning game.
None of this will guarantee you anything, but it will increase your odds of catching a woman's attention. Once you've done that, then it's all remaining true to your life's mission, staying in shape and gaming her well.
The problem? All of these observations suggest that we must play into a set of rules rigged up in her favor. She still has to do little work. She's the prize. "Pick me!" says the sushi/guy.
This is thus why an abundance mentality and thinking of yourself as the prize is also advised. Get off the conveyor belt and become the type of man she'll chase.
How to do that?
Well, diet, exercise, looking good, and game will all still be important, no doubt. But in Bradd00's secret guide, he mentions that women respond surprisingly well to being ignored. Meaning, don't be one of the 100 of chumps she experiences regularly auditioning yourself for her. Don't look for her validation and care less that she's some hottie in the room. Remember, us guys can look at the world as our own conveyor built too.
She's not unique.
Her vaj is not golden.
There will be others.
Act like she'll need more than looks to impress you.
After looks, make sure her behavior fits your standards.
Do not chase. She should make it easy for you to get her out. Playing games? Walk away without a second thought.
Men are already considered disposable in our society. We die in the wars and the mines. Young men's suicide rate is much higher than women's and no on gives a damn. Young men are turning their back on school and careers in droves. Men are the predominant population of the homeless, and so on.
Live on the conveyor belt of men here for women's choosing and you also set yourself up for being another disposable dude, this one in the sexual market place.
Most women have not experienced a man who could care less about their standards, attitude, demands, sh!t-tests, and so on. A man who calls them on their BS and doesn't puzzy beg. They either get with your plan or not; you're good either way.
There's a lot of complaints in the manosphere about women's behavior in the west today. Want to change it? That would require more and more men to simply get off the conveyor belt and not play that game. Make women work for our attention, not the other way around.
Now, what are the odds of THAT happening?
"Oooh, that looks good. I'll try that one." Snatch!
Don't like it? Only take a bite and leave the rest there to be cleaned up by the waitress later.
Some sushi is top notch, other pretty ordinary, and some looks great but does not deliver. Still, the patron can sit and passively watch it pass by and pick and choose as much and as often as their heart desires.
This is women's experience on the dating market today.
Because our social norms are as such that men are still expected to do the approaching, women have no incentive to meet us half-way in such a set up. They can sit back and watch the world of men go by in front of them. As various men express interest, they can be a picky as they like because another one is always going to be coming down the conveyor belt soon enough.
How should we expect women to act when their lives are a constant stream of men available for them to choose from?
Entitled
Picky
Fickle
Hypergamous to the hilt
Delusional
And so on.
What's a guy to do? Well, should he want to actually either get laid or date a women, he's going to have to compete with all the other offerings coming into and out of her life on a daily basis.
This is why forums like this always advise eating right, hitting the gym, get your wardrobe in order, and learning game.
None of this will guarantee you anything, but it will increase your odds of catching a woman's attention. Once you've done that, then it's all remaining true to your life's mission, staying in shape and gaming her well.
The problem? All of these observations suggest that we must play into a set of rules rigged up in her favor. She still has to do little work. She's the prize. "Pick me!" says the sushi/guy.
This is thus why an abundance mentality and thinking of yourself as the prize is also advised. Get off the conveyor belt and become the type of man she'll chase.
How to do that?
Well, diet, exercise, looking good, and game will all still be important, no doubt. But in Bradd00's secret guide, he mentions that women respond surprisingly well to being ignored. Meaning, don't be one of the 100 of chumps she experiences regularly auditioning yourself for her. Don't look for her validation and care less that she's some hottie in the room. Remember, us guys can look at the world as our own conveyor built too.
She's not unique.
Her vaj is not golden.
There will be others.
Act like she'll need more than looks to impress you.
After looks, make sure her behavior fits your standards.
Do not chase. She should make it easy for you to get her out. Playing games? Walk away without a second thought.
Men are already considered disposable in our society. We die in the wars and the mines. Young men's suicide rate is much higher than women's and no on gives a damn. Young men are turning their back on school and careers in droves. Men are the predominant population of the homeless, and so on.
Live on the conveyor belt of men here for women's choosing and you also set yourself up for being another disposable dude, this one in the sexual market place.
Most women have not experienced a man who could care less about their standards, attitude, demands, sh!t-tests, and so on. A man who calls them on their BS and doesn't puzzy beg. They either get with your plan or not; you're good either way.
There's a lot of complaints in the manosphere about women's behavior in the west today. Want to change it? That would require more and more men to simply get off the conveyor belt and not play that game. Make women work for our attention, not the other way around.
Now, what are the odds of THAT happening?