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Women's age and what that, respectively, means.

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I was thinking guys, so what are, generally speaking, the stages in life for a woman, and what the age of a woman means, taking in account if they are single (never married), (married), divorced, with kids or not, and/or widows. What are the slight changes made to get in their panties (slight, imo).

In my mind, what comes to mind is this:

Pre-18 Tries to do what 18-25 do while still doing having a very tight grip by parents and society. They are very obvious showing interest, very. These are not open to cold approaches etc, you mee them because someone you know knows them.

18-25 Social mode. Aka. Party mode. They take place in many social events, and are experiencing life (aka sexing around, str) and just, obeying that concious, unconcious, or not, feeling of living life, knowing that they are in their years. Many marry at this age, though not conciously looking to do so. As older women take the "societal peak" bs to their advantage (not feeling as *****s), this age group takes the "experiencing life" as a pretext to have sex. These are chicks on which seduction material is based upon since women in this group are the most attractive./// If they are milfs, as all you shouldn't be seeking a ltr with them. They turn to husband radar mode, and want you to support their child, relatively easy fvck though.

Married ones apparently are still in party mode, and continue to fvck around. This changes in the next stage, since they now want to secure their catch.

25-35 Husband radar mode. And 35 I think is pushing it. They are looking for a husband. At 25, they realize that they aren't getting hotter, and her friends are getting married and she isn't. She now tries to be more selective with the guys she sees in a regular basis. A LTR with a unsuccesfull guy with no plans (no confidence or drive) is out of the question. I don't like dating these. /// Milfs, same as what I said above. I don't remember running into an attractive, single, milf. Their bitterness took tole on their bodies and are now out of shape and not fun. I haven't had much success with this age group, age and power I suppose will change this.

35-post Lost hope. It's they who lost hope in finding a husband, and continue with their career and start getting rich. They still have a husband radar, but not as tuned as before. But, some also start getting bitter towards men. Although, if you game them, they are totally open to you. Men in general stop approaching them as much as they did before, and the quality of men doing so drops, so you as a DJ are, especially now, a valuable asset.

The change in life, gets them to "love themselves", and to get in shape. They aren't in their sexual pike, but take advantage on that societal saying, and get more direct in showing their sexual interest, married or not. Single/divorced milfs are now not actively seeking to get someone to maintain their offspring. MILFS, like, hot hot, are normaly divorced or married, not single (never married), funny thing.


Take this from a guy in his early 20s. What stages in a womans life do you distinguish? I'll post on how I think older guys might see this in a while, because I've got to get some protein. I'd like this to be in the Mature Forum, but I try to obey rules in their fullest extent (not qualified to post there). This is a generalization.
 
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Very good summation for a young stud!! :up:
 

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Very good summation for a young stud!! :up:
Thankyou.

Well, I never really said anything about the difference in getting them. And take into account I'm not a clubber.

Pre-18 Well, you meet them through someone who allready knows them, since they are looking to appear 18+, they're are all about appearances, look "cool" and older, and they will be showing obvious signs of interest, now if you go further, it's your thing.

18-25 As I said, these are women seduction material is based upon, since its the group of women most men find attractive.

25-35 I don't like these, and have limited experience here. I don't like them, and I'm not what they are looking for, besides sex. But still, they take care a lot on who they screw with since they don't want to be seen as slvts and scare off husbands looking for loyal women. A young man as me shouldn't aim to date these, but fvck them, they are boring dates too. Same with older guys, but older guys can be what they (women) are aiming for, so maybe pre-fvck dating is possible.

35-post I like these the most. Besides, I've always had a thing for older women. /They're kind of like young ones. Although as they get older (even older), they're less into the dating thing, and more straightforward to the fvcking, with young ones, especially 35-45. I suppose, older guys can get into the dating thing with the older-older ones, I wouldn't.

Now, all of these are fvckable. You can SS your way into them, but, this isn't about that, it's about which ones are more... available. The ones that will find you more attractive. The 25-35 group I think is the nastiest. 35+ are great, but aren't LTR material, when 18-25 is. 18-25 are problem free, luggage free, or as free as they get, and older women get more luggage as they grow, and aren't as fun.

So, how do you find this? Any addition or change you'd make to the list?
 

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Great post. I agree with u 100%. That was brilliant I couldn't have said it better myself. As far as the pre 18 goes I think they could be open to cold approaches.

But u pretty hit everything else perfect. For your age u seem like u really know your stuff
 

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What Women's Age Really Means . . .

SamePendo said:
I was thinking guys, so what are, generally speaking, the stages in life for a woman, and what the age of a woman means, taking in account if they are single (never married), (married), divorced, with kids or not, and/or widows. What are the slight changes made to get in their panties (slight, imo).

In my mind, what comes to mind is this:

Pre-18 Tries to do what 18-25 do while still doing having a very tight grip by parents and society. They are very obvious showing interest, very. These are not open to cold approaches etc, you mee them because someone you know knows them.

18-25 Social mode. Aka. Party mode. They take place in many social events, and are experiencing life (aka sexing around, str) and just, obeying that concious, unconcious, or not, feeling of living life, knowing that they are in their years. Many marry at this age, though not conciously looking to do so. As older women take the "societal peak" bs to their advantage (not feeling as *****s), this age group takes the "experiencing life" as a pretext to have sex. These are chicks on which seduction material is based upon since women in this group are the most attractive./// If they are milfs, as all you shouldn't be seeking a ltr with them. They turn to husband radar mode, and want you to support their child, relatively easy fvck though.

Married ones apparently are still in party mode, and continue to fvck around. This changes in the next stage, since they now want to secure their catch.

25-35 Husband radar mode. And 35 I think is pushing it. They are looking for a husband. At 25, they realize that they aren't getting hotter, and her friends are getting married and she isn't. She now tries to be more selective with the guys she sees in a regular basis. A LTR with a unsuccesfull guy with no plans (no confidence or drive) is out of the question. I don't like dating these. /// Milfs, same as what I said above. I don't remember running into an attractive, single, milf. Their bitterness took tole on their bodies and are now out of shape and not fun. I haven't had much success with this age group, age and power I suppose will change this.

35-post Lost hope. It's they who lost hope in finding a husband, and continue with their career and start getting rich. They still have a husband radar, but not as tuned as before. But, some also start getting bitter towards men. Although, if you game them, they are totally open to you. Men in general stop approaching them as much as they did before, and the quality of men doing so drops, so you as a DJ are, especially now, a valuable asset.

The change in life, gets them to "love themselves", and to get in shape. They aren't in their sexual pike, but take advantage on that societal saying, and get more direct in showing their sexual interest, married or not. Single/divorced milfs are now not actively seeking to get someone to maintain their offspring. MILFS, like, hot hot, are normaly divorced or married, not single (never married), funny thing.


Take this from a guy in his early 20s. What stages in a womans life do you distinguish? I'll post on how I think older guys might see this in a while, because I've got to get some protein. I'd like this to be in the Mature Forum, but I try to obey rules in their fullest extent (not qualified to post there). This is a generalization.

What Women's Age Really Means

1-15- Illegal (If you're dissapointed get some help you perverts.)
16-17- Murky Territory (Better stay away to be safe.)
18-25- Jackpot! (These are the best years...)
25-28- They get clingy.
29-35- You're getting desperate.
36+ - You're in deep $hit. Get some viagra, you will probably need it.

I hope my summary clarifies some things :crackup:


-E.Nigma
 

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Nice post u hit it on the money, I couldn't have said it better myself.....
 

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And people keep asking me why I keep going for the 18 year olds.

nice post very accurate!!
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
You get an A for effort SamePendo, and you continue to be a star student, however you may wish to review this thread (scroll to post 17):

Timeline of the Professional Woman
Were you talking about this thread?

Actually, I found it kind of reaffirming to what I wrote, although you suggesting to review it makes me feel I'm missing something so I'll keep re-reading it until I find it. I'm going to try to add to the 35-post category:

"women grow wrinkles, while men grow wiser". . . . Which is the complete opposite, since women base, realisticaly/rawly speaking, their marketability on their looks, and guys base theirs with the power of their mind and bring their dreams to reality, power.

PlasticSurgeon: I've been trying to concentrate into thinking one for men, I'll try to rationalize one for today. But I'm guessing it's kind of the same.

Sexyboy: As I said, its my experience. And remember I'm not a citizen of the US. But, yes, some teens are open to approaching and closing, but it's like, awkward, because it's like they don't know their role in the mating dance. If it's any of your guys thing to go after them, go ahead, it's totaly doable, women are always doable.

Enigma: "Clingy", aka. want to get married. As for older ones, I'm guessing you're not into MILFs.

Thankyou blinkwatt and Nasman.

I actually liked my post very much! :rock:
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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Well, I wouldn't say I'm not into MILFs. It's just that at present I'm 22 and consider the optimal age range for myself to be with 18-25 to screw around with.

Oh, btw, you're right about "clingy".


-E.Nigma

P.S. - I agree with your original post completely, I just thought my breakdown is alot more to the point, as far as DJs are concerned.
 

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SamePendo said:
In my mind, what comes to mind is this:

Pre-18 Tries to do what 18-25 do while still doing having a very tight grip by parents and society. They are very obvious showing interest, very. These are not open to cold approaches etc, you mee them because someone you know knows them.

18-25 Social mode. Aka. Party mode. They take place in many social events, and are experiencing life (aka sexing around, str) and just, obeying that concious, unconcious, or not, feeling of living life, knowing that they are in their years. Many marry at this age, though not conciously looking to do so. As older women take the "societal peak" bs to their advantage (not feeling as *****s), this age group takes the "experiencing life" as a pretext to have sex. These are chicks on which seduction material is based upon since women in this group are the most attractive./// If they are milfs, as all you shouldn't be seeking a ltr with them. They turn to husband radar mode, and want you to support their child, relatively easy fvck though.

Married ones apparently are still in party mode, and continue to fvck around. This changes in the next stage, since they now want to secure their catch.

25-35 Husband radar mode. And 35 I think is pushing it. They are looking for a husband. At 25, they realize that they aren't getting hotter, and her friends are getting married and she isn't. She now tries to be more selective with the guys she sees in a regular basis. A LTR with a unsuccesfull guy with no plans (no confidence or drive) is out of the question. I don't like dating these. /// Milfs, same as what I said above. I don't remember running into an attractive, single, milf. Their bitterness took tole on their bodies and are now out of shape and not fun. I haven't had much success with this age group, age and power I suppose will change this.

35-post Lost hope. It's they who lost hope in finding a husband, and continue with their career and start getting rich. They still have a husband radar, but not as tuned as before. But, some also start getting bitter towards men. Although, if you game them, they are totally open to you. Men in general stop approaching them as much as they did before, and the quality of men doing so drops, so you as a DJ are, especially now, a valuable asset.
Isnt this based on Don Steel's material?
 

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Freddy1 said:
Isnt this based on Don Steel's material?
Link please, I don't remember hearing from this guy, but if he specifically said it first, I'll give credit where it is due. Although, knowledge like this I bet has been around for a long time, we just haven't got a hold of it. Just because it hasn't been written, doesn't mean it hasn't been said or thought.
 

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Yeah man your summarizations are pretty much bang on in general.

However they all share a common theme that never changes no matter what age, from the first sprout of tits to menopause. All are entirely social, sexual and emotional, which all tracks back to whichever stage she's at in her life.
 
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