"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women won`t bring you happiness

Ace of Flames

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Women won't substitute for happiness. If you aren't happy alone, a woman won't make it any better.

Now, a woman can and will bring you emmense happiness, but you need to be happy with yourself first. Its like a prerequisite.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KoalaKing

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This may well be the truth, but I myself prefer to have an attractive girl in my life, it makes me happier, though I don't need one to be happy, if you get my drift. :D
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
There comes a point when the 'spiritual side' has to be addressed
No there doesn't. Turning to religion to make you happy is just as unhealthy as turning to women.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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Ace of Flames said:
Women won't substitute for happiness. If you aren't happy alone, a woman won't make it any better.

Now, a woman can and will bring you emmense happiness, but you need to be happy with yourself first. Its like a prerequisite.
totally.
 

wayword

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Luke Skywalker said:
Strauss - points out, that after getting his act together game wise - he still has regrets of not having children. Ironically, it would appear that the girls he was playing weren't either relationship material, or that he cant settle down with one girl.
Interesting, cuz if he's still with Lisa from Hole, then I don't think he ever will cuz she's in her late 30s...

Anyways, I believe all extremists are driven by a deep insecurity, inadequacy or problem that is indirectly related to their extreme activity. But until they can fix that root problem, they will never fill that void. And this goes for most of these mPUAs - where I wonder where they'll all be at in 10 years?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree that having a woman or girl wont bring happiness but only a byproduct of being happy. I'm battling desire thats why im not happy, too much importance in one area in someones life can be difficult. Telling a depressed or person in depression to be happy is like trying to tell a blind man see the light. difficult but possible.
 
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