"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women with their own one-itis....

fedagent

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Does anyone else find it hard to game a chic who has her own one-itis for someone else?

While I'll be the first to admit I've had some AFC qualities that I'm dropping thanks to this site and some of the posters.....I also don't have a lot of trouble with women.....

What I do find though, after two recent examples, is that women who have one-itis for someone seem to be harder to game and you run an increased chance of getting LJBF.

While I haven't gotten the LJBF in the specific case I'm thinking of now, neither does she tell me of her one-itis. In fact, she makes sure to hide it from me so I'm having a hard time guaging whether I'm having success in gaming her.....and my gut for once isn't helping me much. The only reason I know of her one-itis is that she has a confidant who unbeknownst to her tells me many, many things in general....this just being one of them.

Anyone else encounter similar things when gaming a woman with her own version of one-itis? Are they just harder to game since their mind is on another man?

Fed
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do you expect to achieve from sarging a chick with one-itis? Time would be better spent elsewhere.
 

fedagent

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What do you expect to achieve from sarging a chick with one-itis? Time would be better spent elsewhere.
I would agree Francisco, but I was already engaged in the game with her by the time I found out......so I decided to just use her for testing ground on material, etc,...

I take it by your response that you both agree with me that women with one-itis are harder to game?

Fed
 
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