"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women with tattoos on the back of the shoulder

Broham

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I agree that tattoos on girls look extremely white-trashy (assuming the girl is white of course.) My current LTR has 3 small tattoos and she says she regrets each one of them.

The first one she got when she was 15 because all her friends were getting them. Its two small dolphins around her belly button. Then was she was 19 she got a butterfly the size of a nickel on the back of her neck and one of those retarded chinese symbols on her ankle.

They don't bother me as much as they used to, but if I end up staying with her for awhile I'll demand that she eventually get them all removed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alphamale1821

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Yeah i think the star thing was a good observation. Many chick's who have those star tattoo's were some of the commonly know slvts around my school.
 

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I'm starting to think they should not tattoo anyone under 25. Most immature people that get tattoos who later mature always regret their stupid mistake.
 

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speakeasy said:
I'm starting to think they should not tattoo anyone under 25. Most immature people that get tattoos who later mature always regret their stupid mistake.
When I was growing up I would equate a tattoo with stupidity. Really, who would be so dum as to not realize that when you get a tattoo at age 18, you have it for 60 to 70 years, and in that time it just looks fvcking gross.
 

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Usually these type of girls are trying to make themselves unique and individual but they don't realise by havng these tattoos they are doing the exact opposite.

Its the same with these stupid belly button rings - they've now become so mainstream that it completely defeats the purpose of having one. You just look like a fashion sheep.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KnockoutJM said:
Tattooed makeup i would put below a meaningful tattoo.. Think about it..
Actually I believe the cosmetic tats fade over time and have to be redone, somehting about using vegetable dye IIRC.

I also knew a girl who had a Japanese phrase tattooed down her back, from her hairline on down her spine. It was sorta cute.
 

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I think it must be an american thing. When I was in america every other person had at least one tattoo. Where I´m from (Germany) hardly any women have a tat, so somehow it´s a big turnon for me if she has one.
 

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Monkey said:
Usually these type of girls are trying to make themselves unique and individual but they don't realise by havng these tattoos they are doing the exact opposite.

Its the same with these stupid belly button rings - they've now become so mainstream that it completely defeats the purpose of having one. You just look like a fashion sheep.
At least the belly button ring can be taken off. I know a girl who decided to have her tattoo laser removed and the removal is not going to well. It looks worse now than it did when she had it.
 

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MDgood said:
And how many of those non-slutty girls did you nail within the first 5 dates?

What's that you say? All of them?!?
LMAO, you make that sound like it's a bad thing.
 

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And something else - every woman I know who sports a butterfly tattoo has a sordid, disturbed past. Usually nympomaniacs and manic types who want to change for the better. Think about it, that's what a butterfly is, an ugly caterpiller who changed into something beautiful. These women relate to that. It says a lot for the psychology behind the images we chose to have permanently stuck on us.

That being said, what does a monkey signify?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Is there a way to invest in tattoo removal? I think this is going to become a HUGE industry starting within the next decade as all these silly women who got tats in their early 20s finally figure out that it doesn't look so cool with thir wedding dress.
 

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A long time ago, my late Grandfather remarked to me that only criminals, circus freaks, and low-life`s get tattoos.

Sorry, I just don't highly respect folks who get tats. To me it means you don't respect yourself, your body, and need to hop on whatever bandwagon that's hot at any given moment. Just my opinion. :down:
 

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Espi said:
DUDE! I thought I was the only one who thought that! :rockon:

I gotta invent a TR product and get a patent...seriously, removal stock will skyrocket in the next decade or so. The technology is not good right now, but when demand begins flooding the market...
I'm not sure what to do. I'm not a scientist, so it's not like I'm going to invent some new laser that will do it better. Maybe the best thing is buy some stock in a company that specifically handles this. Or perhaps open up your own tattoo removal clinic? I wonder what it takes to become a tattoo removal technician? Do you have to be a doctor? I imagine the cost of the removal laser would be astronomical. If you have ideas, share them with me.
 

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backbreaker said:
Tat's are like hurricanes.. you have different Catogories:

Catogory 1: Dad and Mom's name, Kids name, etc
Catogory 2: A meanful Phrase
Catorogy 3: a love one's name, a BF's name, a person's name that is not related
Catogory 4: Stars, eagles, chinese letters, hearts, "daddy's little princess" tattoos, Tattoos of Baby Boop
Catogory 5: Anything more extreme than Catogory 4

"man.. we have have a Catogory 5 Tatoo"

"uh oh Jim.. this looks like a super*****"
LOL... :crackup: :up:

While many guys say tattoos mean nothing, the science I have read is very convincing that tattoos signify a certain pedigree of personality. In my own observations, I find its true even for just one tattoo, regardless of category. It means they either smoke, do drugs, or drink to the point it's a problem. I've never found an exception and even if I did, the not-exception to exception ratio would be staggering. I have tattoos myself and certainly am no exception.
 

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Deep Dish said:
LOL... :crackup: :up:

While many guys say tattoos mean nothing, the science I have read is very convincing that tattoos signify a certain pedigree of personality. In my own observations, I find its true even for just one tattoo, regardless of category. It means they either smoke, do drugs, or drink to the point it's a problem. I've never found an exception and even if I did, the not-exception to exception ratio would be staggering. I have tattoos myself and certainly am no exception.
This may have been true a decade (and prior ) ago. Tatoos are now as mainstream as any other style point.

They are even infiltrating the white collar enviroment.

I for one have the top quarters of both arms done and am not through.
I am an engineering student maintaining a 3.8 gpa, never done a drug in my life, have been drunk exactly twice in the past year, and party responsible every weekend. Same goes for the majority of the people I know including my fiance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
This may have been true a decade (and prior ) ago. Tatoos are now as mainstream as any other style point.

They are even infiltrating the white collar enviroment.

I for one have the top quarters of both arms done and am not through.
I am an engineering student maintaining a 3.8 gpa, never done a drug in my life, have been drunk exactly twice in the past year, and party responsible every weekend. Same goes for the majority of the people I know including my fiance.
Tattoos are certainly mainstream now more than ever in recent memory, but I think the nexus between tattoos and certain lifestyle choices remains true. You may be an exception—although you didn't mention never smoking—but of course exceptions don't invalid the rule. I do agree about tattoos infiltrating white collar environments which does demonstrate tattoos are no longer only among "rebels" but I would contend the degree of social acceptance is a red herring. Even today, the inked population are much more prone to vices than the non-inked population.
 
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