"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women with higher estrogen levels are prettier....

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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too bad there are no pictures to back up the story on the link.

however, i gotta say that i believe it because women that have higher testosterone levels have more manly looking faces, when you look at bone structure on the face. they also tend to be much hairier like guys.

but on another note, i know a lady whose estrogen levels are so high that whenever she gets pregnant , her estrogen levels "burn up" her fetuses and she miscarries every time. so too much estrogen is a really bad thing.
 

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I wonder how much $$$ was pissed away figuring out that brain buster.
I'd like some of that money to do a research to confirm that men with higher testosterone levels are more handsome.
 

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On a less sarcastic note, why are you so focused on the intangibles in life, mahon? All I'm picking up from your threads is "facial structure, facial balance, estrogen/testosterone, being short sucks". Forgive me if I'm being naive, but wouldn't you think it more intelligent to think about and discuss topics that aren't set in stone?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten said:
too bad there are no pictures to back up the story on the link.

however, i gotta say that i believe it because women that have higher testosterone levels have more manly looking faces, when you look at bone structure on the face. they also tend to be much hairier like guys.

but on another note, i know a lady whose estrogen levels are so high that whenever she gets pregnant , her estrogen levels "burn up" her fetuses and she miscarries every time. so too much estrogen is a really bad thing.

Here is a pic.

http://www.rxpgnews.com/specialtopics/evolution/article_2773.shtml


Although I agree the face on the left is more attractive than the one on the right, the face on the right is still rather attractive because it still has good facial balance and harmony.


So, IMHO opinion, as long as a woman's face still looks primarily feminine and not a cross between male-female...THIS STUDY IS BS.
 
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