I thought this post was pretty interesting because it shows how much **** a girl will put up from a guy (is it illegal to post other people's stuff? If so, let me know and I'll delete it)
Disgusted By This Guy's Behavior
"I just got finished with finals at my University. Recently, a guy I know (also a good friends ex boyfriend) asked me to go downtown with him to get drinks. My friend knows that I'm not interested in him romantically, so she didn't care when I told her later.
He told me to meet him at a bar/ restaurant downtown at 10pm. So, I got there around that time and texted him saying, "God, its dark in here. Where are you sitting?" He replied saying, "Oh...uhhh...I'm not even there yet. Sorrryyyyyy." I figured that I could wait for a while, but nearly an hour passed. I thought that was incredibly rude. He invited me out, and doesn't even show up on time. I would have left, but it took a lot of gas money and driving for me to get there. Just when I was ready to leave he snuck up behind me with some of his friends. Then he said to me, "You're still here." I started to tell him that what he did was rude, but he ignored me and hopped off to the bar. He then asked me what I wanted at the counter and bought me an expensive drink. After an hour or two passed by I was getting pretty drunk. Now, I don't normally drink like that, but I was celebrating finals and the end of my Internship job at school.
Several of his friends were with him and we ended up going to a few more places. He started dirty dancing with this girl in the group (she goes to the same University) and I thought that was a little weird and kept talking to the other people. After this everyone was hungry, so we went to the parking lot. I told him that I was NOT okay to drive my car, but he proceeded to take my keys from me. Not forcefully, but just like he was trying to get his way or something. I told him that no one should be driving buzzed and he just ignored me!
Later, after eating out he literally left me in the parking lot to go off with the rest of his buddies (the girl especially) and said, "You're good to drive now...I'm sure...just go..." I guess he was going to leave me there. I told him that I would wait in my car until I was fine to drive, but that I wasn't going anywhere. He then said that I could stay at his apartment with his friend Megan (who was highly intoxicated) and he drove my car there. (I also kept wondering where in the world his car was) So, we get to his apartment and he says to drive home now because he "had plans." The girl from school that he had been dancing with all night was waiting for him at her car; she had followed us. But, his friend was so drunk that this plan was ruined.
When we got to his apartment he seemed extremely annoyed and said that his friend and ruined his changed to "get laid" and up his number of 19 to 20. He told me to take the couch, and I said that I wanted to try and go home. When we got outside his apartment he told me the directions really fast, and then proceeded to yell at me, "Look. I told you where the (bleep) we are. I don't know what to (bleeping) tell you now. Either go to sleep or go home because I'm tired." I went back inside and couldn't sleep. I knocked on his door and said I was leaving. I then texted him: In the future I would politely ask that you don't ever yell at me or curse at me like you just did. That was incredibly rude and disrespectful. Don't talk to me like that again."
I cried most of the way home thinking that if I wanted to be around a person who was mean to me---I would call one of my two ex boyfriends for that!
I haven't heard anything from him since then. What is his problem? If he didn't want me to hang out with him, then why in the world did he invite me in the first place?!? Was that text appropriate?
I know that there are things I could have done differently, but I still don't think that excuses his behavior."
Disgusted By This Guy's Behavior
"I just got finished with finals at my University. Recently, a guy I know (also a good friends ex boyfriend) asked me to go downtown with him to get drinks. My friend knows that I'm not interested in him romantically, so she didn't care when I told her later.
He told me to meet him at a bar/ restaurant downtown at 10pm. So, I got there around that time and texted him saying, "God, its dark in here. Where are you sitting?" He replied saying, "Oh...uhhh...I'm not even there yet. Sorrryyyyyy." I figured that I could wait for a while, but nearly an hour passed. I thought that was incredibly rude. He invited me out, and doesn't even show up on time. I would have left, but it took a lot of gas money and driving for me to get there. Just when I was ready to leave he snuck up behind me with some of his friends. Then he said to me, "You're still here." I started to tell him that what he did was rude, but he ignored me and hopped off to the bar. He then asked me what I wanted at the counter and bought me an expensive drink. After an hour or two passed by I was getting pretty drunk. Now, I don't normally drink like that, but I was celebrating finals and the end of my Internship job at school.
Several of his friends were with him and we ended up going to a few more places. He started dirty dancing with this girl in the group (she goes to the same University) and I thought that was a little weird and kept talking to the other people. After this everyone was hungry, so we went to the parking lot. I told him that I was NOT okay to drive my car, but he proceeded to take my keys from me. Not forcefully, but just like he was trying to get his way or something. I told him that no one should be driving buzzed and he just ignored me!
Later, after eating out he literally left me in the parking lot to go off with the rest of his buddies (the girl especially) and said, "You're good to drive now...I'm sure...just go..." I guess he was going to leave me there. I told him that I would wait in my car until I was fine to drive, but that I wasn't going anywhere. He then said that I could stay at his apartment with his friend Megan (who was highly intoxicated) and he drove my car there. (I also kept wondering where in the world his car was) So, we get to his apartment and he says to drive home now because he "had plans." The girl from school that he had been dancing with all night was waiting for him at her car; she had followed us. But, his friend was so drunk that this plan was ruined.
When we got to his apartment he seemed extremely annoyed and said that his friend and ruined his changed to "get laid" and up his number of 19 to 20. He told me to take the couch, and I said that I wanted to try and go home. When we got outside his apartment he told me the directions really fast, and then proceeded to yell at me, "Look. I told you where the (bleep) we are. I don't know what to (bleeping) tell you now. Either go to sleep or go home because I'm tired." I went back inside and couldn't sleep. I knocked on his door and said I was leaving. I then texted him: In the future I would politely ask that you don't ever yell at me or curse at me like you just did. That was incredibly rude and disrespectful. Don't talk to me like that again."
I cried most of the way home thinking that if I wanted to be around a person who was mean to me---I would call one of my two ex boyfriends for that!
I haven't heard anything from him since then. What is his problem? If he didn't want me to hang out with him, then why in the world did he invite me in the first place?!? Was that text appropriate?
I know that there are things I could have done differently, but I still don't think that excuses his behavior."
