Women will punish you for not understanding them (on a deeper level)

[ThisIsSparta]

But then this presents the question: How do you stop needing women? Some of us are able to pull this off. But for the majority of men in sosuave, this is another question down the rabbit hole.

There is a difference in "wanting" and "needing" something. We all want something...... hell who doesnt want big tiddied goth girls?

There is also very little a man "needs" from a woman, in fact its only procreation if one decides to do so.

The key to not being needy is discipline. The discipline to not being a slave of your wants, like every man should should have.

The amount shyt so many men are willing to take during their chase for pvssy is staggering and in my oppinion its a sign of weakness if you spend your lifetime on things like cold approaching 100 women to maybe get 3 dates and 1 fvck out of it. It doesnt get mor needy then that.

There is a thread which is a good example for a guy that doesnt have "abundance" in spite of all his efforts and possible skills with women:
I may be getting a little black-pilled now... | SoSuave Discussion Forum

 

[jhonny9546]

That's why you should keep trying to understand women

I know a man I've always described as effeminate, precisely because every time his woman did something, he was always questioning himself, talking to his friends, trying to understand the situation, rather than focusing on himself and earning respect. Currently, his relationship (outwardly) seems perfect: children, marriage, etc.
Yet there are certain types of women who seek, and get along well with, only these types of men.
But I don't think that's how things should be. It's a condemnation.
Men are different.
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That said, please @Gamisch explain this better pleaase, it's interesting
Do you mean that there are also women who do everything to marry a man just to punish him? (Rather than saying I want to stay with him so I'm marrying him to keep him close or because the time spent together and life together is good.)

 

[Gamisch]

I know a man I've always described as effeminate, precisely because every time his woman did something, he was always questioning himself, talking to his friends, trying to understand the situation, rather than focusing on himself and earning respect. Currently, his relationship (outwardly) seems perfect: children, marriage, etc.
Yet there are certain types of women who seek, and get along well with, only these types of men.
But I don't think that's how things should be. It's a condemnation.
Men are different.
---
That said, please @Gamisch explain this better pleaase, it's interesting
Do you mean that there are also women who do everything to marry a man just to punish him? (Rather than saying I want to stay with him so I'm marrying him to keep him close or because the time spent together and life together is good.)

First of all, as im aging I seem to notice a correlation between men that are TOO eager to get married and weak men. Not saying marriage is tor weak men, heck ,it SUPPOSED to be the exact opposite; marriage should be reserved for the strongest men out there. But the water gets muddy because weak men rush to the stand to tie down a woman thinking it will solve all there ( dating ) issues.


My geuss is that your homie indeed gets punishment for not understanding the nitty gritty. Matter a fact, there's a change that like 80% of the " trith" passes him by( h3r true feelings that is).

One thing that inspired me to make this thread is the fact I'm messing with a woman who was married to a " good" man. But the problem is that dude was TOO good for the long term...after a while a woman might want something else. And that's another crucial part about understanding women. When you gotta walk you gotta walk!!! You can stay hoping things will turn around but in reality she's checked out LONG time ago already. So she'll punish you either consciously or unconsciously in hopes you will walk away.

Sometimes you gotta understand the EXACT moment whe se switching up on you. Yes she might swing back but if she doesn't, you gotta have an exit plan ready. Most men like your friend lack a back up plan. She is basically his entire world, and we as Don Juans know that that's a recipe for disaster..

 

[Tilex]

Isn't it crazy how some men are able to sleep with hundreds of women while the next dude has to fly to a 3rd world shytehole to get a demob like women who plays him?

I believe this subject deserves it's own thread, because there's a lot of misunderstanding about this.

Guys that wife up women from 3rd world sh!thole countries fall into the following predicament:

A) Good looking guy fishing in a shallow pond.
What this means is the guy doesn't know his own value because of the lack of women or lack of quality women in his own city.
Therefore he has to shop elsewhere, which leads him searching in other countries.

B) Guys that only meet women through online dating but constantly get burned out by results. This leads them to try more extreme measures of online matchmaking.

C) The pathetic guy that never learns how to get better in seduction and wants the easiest solution in life by taking the fastest road out.

D) Religious guys that seek partners ready to get married immediately.

 

[Gamisch]

I believe this subject deserves it's own thread, because there's a lot of misunderstanding about this.

Guys that wife up women from 3rd world sh!thole countries fall into the following predicament:

A) Good looking guy fishing in a shallow pond.
What this means is the guy doesn't know his own value because of the lack of women or lack of quality women in his own city.
Therefore he has to shop elsewhere, which leads him searching in other countries.

B) Guys that only meet women through online dating but constantly get burned out by results. This leads them to try more extreme measures of online matchmaking.

C) The pathetic guy that never learns how to get better in seduction and wants the easiest solution in life by taking the fastest road out.

D) Religious guys that seek partners ready to get married immediately.

Or a combination of ALL of the above?

Humans in general ain't " that ugly ". Ofcourse we all have our preference, but generally speaking there are only so many architypes . It's amazing what difference only 2 kilo and more can make as it can be the difference between en flat belly and a beer belly for example.

Most incels I know aren't THAT bad looking. One former homie is like 7" but his mindset is as small.as it gets. He ended up with a pinay, and I have no idea how thing are going nowadays.

 

[Gamisch]

I believe this subject deserves it's own thread, because there's a lot of misunderstanding about this.

Guys that wife up women from 3rd world sh!thole countries fall into the following predicament:

A) Good looking guy fishing in a shallow pond.
What this means is the guy doesn't know his own value because of the lack of women or lack of quality women in his own city.
Therefore he has to shop elsewhere, which leads him searching in other countries.

B) Guys that only meet women through online dating but constantly get burned out by results. This leads them to try more extreme measures of online matchmaking.

C) The pathetic guy that never learns how to get better in seduction and wants the easiest solution in life by taking the fastest road out.

D) Religious guys that seek partners ready to get married immediately.

A. It's indeed all a matter of mindset. I mean, I live in a small town and every day I come across at least one woman I've never seen before but I'd love to tear her up...

we often mentioned that "love" ,for all his/ her mystic is yet a dull mathematical game aka a number's game. The difference between a somewhat decent looking guy who believes in himself vs one who doesn't might be indeed that expensive plane ticket.. While the end result will be the same: a woman who is out of control and unhappy after a while.

B. That's why OLD should be used wisely. Personally I tend to delete the apps occasionally, especially after I " caught some fish". I believe there's a correlation between low quality prospects and OLD. I do however understand that OLD is the easiest way to go about things, but sometimes easy come = easy go...

C. Again, you can be a decent or even good-looking man, but contrary to popular belief looks alone ain't enough for a man in 2020++. Imo women are desensitised by good looks alone. You NEED to bsck up your looks with the right attitude. This is a worldwide phenomenon. If you struggle locally you'll struggle internationally as well..

D. This might ( MIGHT) be the most waterproof version...a religious woman might've been brainwashed enough to be somewhat controlled. Yet, once you take her away from her own country into our modern Sodom it's a matter of time before she gets westernised. You better be a religious Chad who can't find a like minded woman because of his religion, anything else( desperation as motivation)will fail eventually.

 

[jhonny9546]

a,b,c,d

There will be many other situations. The difference is exposure to opportunities that generate experience.
More exposure, more opportunities. More experience, more choice.
But this does not mean that the choice will be right.
Then we leave everything to "luck".

In many cases, luck is meeting just 1 woman, and having her for the rest of your life, because you are good together.