"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jonwon

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...n-forgive-affair-Not-man-gave-heart-body.html

I've said this time and time again, a woman will forgive a man sleeping around, but she wont forgive a man who gets emotionally invested in another woman and sleeps with her.

Men and woman are different when it comes to cheating.

Not a bad article on the subject and possibly the only one I've come across from a female point of view that exposes this - Usually woman stay quiet about this issue.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Turn this upside down for a minute -
I am wondering about the self opinion of women who have 'emotional affairs ' with men other than their husbands. Do they therefore regard ( and condemn) those as more serious forms of cheating than if they merely had a FB type relationship with the guy or occasionally engaged in a ONS.

Perhaps, in true feminine style, they have rationalized a way to ensure that the rules do not apply to them with equal vigor.
 

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Guys are concerned about his girl fukking other guys. We are evolutionarily programmed to despise raising another man's kid.

Girls are concerned about guys getting emotionally attached to other girls. They are similarly programmed to despise players that may leave them holding the bag. (i.e. raise the kid on her own).

Guy invests a few minutes, but the girl invests nine months, and at least five years of commitment (to the kid).

Nature has a way to slowly weed out the girls that love to get filled with *** by every swinging **** she sees, and the guys that dig her type. Their offspring usually don't fare to well against those that have two parents (at least in the evolutionary wild) and soon those with the two aforementioned dispositions are outnumbered in the gene pool.

Meanwhile, back in the future.

If she goes out with some guys, and says it's OK because "nothing happened," (meaning nothing physical) then it's cool for him to go out with some girls (if he's got enough game and money) so long as "nothing happened," meaning it was ONLY physical.

Problem is guys are worried a friendship will develop into sex, and girls are worried that sex will develop into friendship.

Guys that want to keep a girl loyal should be a good friend. Girls that want to keep a guy loyal should be a good fukk.

No frigid fatties nor whiny AFC pu$$ies looking for a replacement mommy and the world is a happy place.
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
Guys are concerned about his girl fukking other guys. We are evolutionarily programmed to despise raising another man's kid.

Girls are concerned about guys getting emotionally attached to other girls. They are similarly programmed to despise players that may leave them holding the bag. (i.e. raise the kid on her own).

Guy invests a few minutes, but the girl invests nine months, and at least five years of commitment (to the kid).

Nature has a way to slowly weed out the girls that love to get filled with *** by every swinging **** she sees, and the guys that dig her type. Their offspring usually don't fare to well against those that have two parents (at least in the evolutionary wild) and soon those with the two aforementioned dispositions are outnumbered in the gene pool.

Meanwhile, back in the future.

If she goes out with some guys, and says it's OK because "nothing happened," (meaning nothing physical) then it's cool for him to go out with some girls (if he's got enough game and money) so long as "nothing happened," meaning it was ONLY physical.

Problem is guys are worried a friendship will develop into sex, and girls are worried that sex will develop into friendship.

Guys that want to keep a girl loyal should be a good friend. Girls that want to keep a guy loyal should be a good fukk.

No frigid fatties nor whiny AFC pu$$ies looking for a replacement mommy and the world is a happy place.
Great perspective and a great post:up:
 

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Guys that want to keep a girl loyal should be a good friend. Girls that want to keep a guy loyal should be a good fukk.
Okay so question. Guys that want to keep a girl loyal should be a good friend? aren't we supposed to stay dominant and not there friends?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For whatever its worth, I have heard a few girls say they wanted a boyfriend who they could count on like their girlfriends. I told these girls that I didnt buy it, but maybe there is some truth to it.
 
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