"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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(women) why being single is the new normal

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http://www.marieclaire.com/politics/features/a18976/all-the-single-ladies-rebecca-traister/

I really dont know what to think honestly...from my personal point of view is great, surely not willing to marry at any of the current conditions but for society (therefore for women since they rely on society for their wellbeing) are we sure is it doable?

Btw popped on my facebook somehow, not familiar with the author but she doesnt look like one of those angry feminist, more like some kind of "modern" woman just not mad at men.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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From my experience.... that the women or guy is sexually active or not..... everyone seems to be ''permanently singe'' focusing on ''career'' and seeking easy LTR (at any ''problems'' they run away)

It seems just investing effort in a LTR is a pain.... we all know LTR and love is work. Nothing wrong with single ladies and onenight stand.... but that nobody wants to be in a relationship or work for it... I find it sad.

It's like.... everything has to come easy or not.... I am refering to a 24 to 40 years old group.

Sure sometimes a girl leave with a guy in that group.... likely a 1night or just ''leaving and going home alone''
 

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meh more likely a lying mechanism to not over think on it, remember all woman have her clock going, and woman will just say anything if its a way to not look like she is a loner, a guy loner no one care a female loner, all her friends, parents and family will look at her, and if not she will look at the happy couples around and feel bad lol.

that is just a way to deal with it, remember even us at some point, wanted a GF to not look like loners and sad.
 
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