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Women who'd rather catch flights than feelings, traveling alone

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This is an interesting topic, kind of what we're talking about when it comes to the independent woman, but an interesting angle on that.

The women who prefer to live as lone gypsies. A woman posted this article to her FB (I guess because she supports this). Another demonstration on how women who get weird looks when they travel alone.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/becca-mar...irls-whod-rather-catch-flights-than-feelings/

To me though, this article is an attempt to target those with no direction in their lives, probably shirk their bills, rent, and debts (wouldn't we all) without consequence.

A paragraph that empowers their inner slut...

Here’s to the girls who look for love, but are completely content on their own, and who never settle for anyone who doesn’t deserve them. Here’s to the girls who fall in lust for a night and say goodbye in the morning.


Another part of the piece were they admittedly prefer to remain selfish, empowering a character flaw instead of owning up to it as a negative characteristic.

Notice how they qualify it with "As selfish as this sounds..." They qualify it with the word "sounds"

It's kind of like when someone says, "I don't mean to be rude, but..." then they proceed to be rude in whatever they say next. But hey, they didn't MEAN to be rude, right?

As selfish as this sounds, I’d rather live my life for me – the way I want. I don’t want to factor someone else’s plans, feelings or dreams into my life because right now all I want to do is leave. I want to go where I want, I don’t want to consult anyone over a trip, I just want to buy the ticket. If my plans and path change I don’t want to have to explain that to anyone, I just want to go. If I meet someone wonderful I don’t want to say goodbye because I have someone else back home to worry about.

A lot of "Here's to the girls who..." wanted to add, "Who is an STD-filled gypsy who shirks responsibility.

Not sure about what they mean about the "Never, ever settle..."

Here’s to the girls like me, the one’s who’d rather catch flights than feelings – the one’s who will never, ever, settle.

Anyways, I'm starting to see these articles pop up justifying selfish or ill behavior of women and putting it in a positive light. These are the kinds of people that can't take criticism and call those people who do criticize them, legitimately, as being "negative' or "draining their energy"

There is also an article that counters this one.

http://highexistence.com/10-spiritual-bypassing-things-people-total-bull****/

It gives the real deal that counters the above article.
 

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The girls who are happiest when they’re alone because they’ve fallen in love with their lives.
:lol::lol::lol:

There are many women out there that are like the article you mentioned. Single, independent, live alone, mostly successful careers, various social circles, no steady bf. They get lonely from time to time and want their needs to be temporarily filled, so they hit up a prospect on social media or text/email. They like the fantasy of jumping on an airplane to go spend a weekend with a guy.

These emotionally unavailable types prefer to have romantic dinners, unique dates in an unfamiliar environment, have lots of sechs while visiting the guy, then hop right back on the plan after the weekend is over.

Its like those romance chick flicks where the woman gets swept away in the romance to have care-free fun and go back to the real world on Monday. It's not reality and not a relationship. The romance is only deluding the reality that is.

In between the breaks of a LDR or multiple LDR, they will send and receive flirtations of bread crumb promises that one day they'll be united permanently, move to each other's city and housing situation all with the dream to maybe start their future together.

The future forward promises are a fantasy that follows a predictable script. Even if the couple does move in together, one or both parties lose interest because the mystery, challenge, and uncertainty of sechs happening is gone. They get comfortable and one of the partners will break up with the other. Meanwhile the partner that moved for the other will be stuck without friends or a purpose and have to start life's direction all over.

The above scenario is exactly while I'll never do a LDR. It's not emotionally worth it for a quick weekend here or there romp in the sheets.

I imagine that the guy can climb higher on her HST because of the simple fact that he is unavailable on a consistent basis. The distance creates a challenge as long as her interest level in him is high.
 
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So whats wrong with a girl like this? Why can't she be selfish with her own life? Its her to live, not yours. That's her choice to do what makes her happy. If it leads her to running thru lots of guys or being lonely later in life then so be it.

I see a recurring mentality with you. You seem to think everybody needs to walk the same path you walk. You don't respect differences nor do you try and see where someone else is coming from.

I dated a girl that fits the one you described very closely. Ultimately the demise of our relationship came down to her wanting to go on her own trips to climb mountains, go fishing etc by herself. She didn't want to have to worry about maintaining a relationship with me. And I'm fine with that. I've been the guy that put my hobby before my relationship with my significant other. It comes down to what is important to you at that point in your life.

Everyone has needs that they want met. Some people get those needs/desires met thru other people. Some get them met thru hobbies, work, religion, etc. It all depends on where your priorities are at that point in life. And priorities do change. Not all of us are meant to serve others. This girl I dated spent 20yrs of her life raising her own child and 3 others. She said many times she felt like she put her own needs/desires on hold to take care of others. And now it was her time to go do her thing.

Call them selfish all you want, but its also selfish to think they should change their ways to appease you and/or align with your views on how one should live their life. If you don't like this about them, then don't be in their life.
 

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Let them do their thing.

Women like this can be good fun and entertainment.

I met an American chick who was in London for the week March time. Cute, spontaneous, easy going.

I hit her up when she got back to the states and now she's flying out to Dubai when I'm away there for business in May just stay with me. Guaranteed bang and energetic travel companion. Those are the kind good time girls a man who likes to travel benefits from having in his phone book.
 

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Hey as long as that same girl doesn't get silly when I hit it and quit it then there's no issues, she can live her life.

I guarantee after she hits the wall she's gonna try to settle that worn out vag down with some dude that's gonna have to live up to everything every guy that tried to get into her shorts said to her.

She needs to stick to her guns and stay not settling.
 

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