Women who won't give you what you want

[Dstructor]

I look back now when i first started watching programs and used to see all those gurus and PUA's talk about how a woman was so resistfull at first, *****-shield on full mode and the whole bored-chick demeanor

For a while also i felt like my level of "skills" when it comes to women lies in making those who reject(ed) and who are unattracted to me totally head over heals

Hanging out with the girls in the model i'm in, i always like talking to them, i realize what a really cool bunch; they're very unique and different from each other, some are incredibly fun and sexy, some are HILARIOUS and i actually feel energized from talking to them,..etc

Just a while ago i was around a couple of girls who were almost TOTALLY non-responsive; one of them rarely looks at you, the other is always bored like you need to pay her to smile and the other probably had ADD; you're talking to her and suddenly she runs off and says hi to her friends

They're all very cute (to a point) but their stand-offish behaviour kinda tells you or gives you the feeling that they won't give you what you want

A couple of things i have to say from this observation:

1. pick a style of game that you like and goes well with who you are. You may need to sit down and know who you are first
   
2. Know what you want and what issues you have around it (if there's any). A good thing here is to accept the fact that you have issues if you found them
   
3. Here's the kicker: When you settle down and findout those past two you'll start to spit game really naturally and actually enjoy just spitting it. But if the girl's not giving you the responses you want or what you want then this tells you only ONE thing about this girl...she never had it in the first place

My lifestylist (and martial arts coach) said a few words that were really profound

You're scared because you look for who you are in the outside, you see yourself from the outside and you can't handle that image being negative. But from what you told me you always meant good even when you were treated badly. See yourself from the inside

And the moment i saw these girls and how they reacted to me (this was anything but sexual and barely friendly), the thought was: "They won't give me what i want. Even if they had it, i want someone who gives it to me"

Once you realize who you are and what you want try to realize that there are a million and one ways to get it and enjoy it so if it's not there in one, that's all there is to it.

You don't get LJBF'd coz you did something wrong, you feel bad about it coz THERE IS something wrong (or unhelpful) with your interpretation or beliefs

 

[Daydream Engineer]

This is the attitude of a true don juan, you know what you want in life and you go for it. This is what Pook meant by being the Great Catch, bump

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

Good attitude - live your life to the fullest.

Cheers!