Women who want their wifebeating men to stop - but stay because they're bad boys

[Rollo Tomassi]

From Insanity Plea.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you’re incarcerated.

What appears to be insanity in women is usually the manifested result of their evolutionary imperatives. Anders Breivik had multiple offers of marriage in prison from women he didn’t even know the day before he went on his killing spree. Richard Ramirez (night stalker), Scott Peterson, both had small cult followings of women ready to bear their potentially murderous offspring. There is no uniquely male phenomenon of men deliberately taking action to seek out the intimacies of incarcerated women.

It may seem like only insane or celebrity seeking women would be attracted to convicted murderers, and this may be the case, but there is an underlying attraction/arousal to a man with the capacity to kill another man. In our evolutionary past, killing a rival was the ultimate social proof of Alpha dominance. It would stand to reason that this act would have evolved into a conditional prompt for female attraction. While provisioning traits that fostered trust and nurturing may have been selected-for in the interests of parental investment, the traits unique to the physical capacity to kill a genetic rival would be selected-for sexual cues for women.

While it may offend men’s sensibilities and morals, hypergamy doesn’t care what your preconceived notions are about what constitutes Alpha according to the male perspective. Women are attracted to Men with a capacity for dominance, by order of degree. How that dominance manifests itself may be measurable, but know that the Alpha indicators of that dominance are all that matters in feminine arousal.

Accused Boston Bomber, Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, has over 78K fans on his FaceBook page most of which are young girls who think he's "cute" and don't want him to die. Likewise, Chris Brown has a dedicated online following of women who "wouldn't mind getting beaten by him."

These aren't all damaged BPD women with psychological problems. Women have an innate physical arousal for men with a capacity for violence. Think about that for a minute; in our evolutionary past there was no higher form of Alpha social proof than for a man to kill his immediate rivals. Nothing proved a better capacity for genetic survival that a man who could kill his genetic competitors.

Genghis Khan was Alpha as ƒuck, and a leader-of-men, but probably would be on most people’s douchebag list for the era he lived in.

 

[MikeOck]

I briefly dated a woman who, during the first (and last) time we had sex, got the weirdest look on her face and told me, "I can't orgasm unless I am being punched in the face during sex". Yes, some women not only want a man with the capacity for violence, they want a man who will be violent with them.

This one was raised a strict Catholic and taught that sex was dirty and wrong, she dated guys who treated her like a princess and predictably, never climaxed. That is, until she met some douche bag who raped her, and subsequently provided her first orgasm during the rape. I guess she could let go of the guilt of sex if it was against her will?

Beating women isn't my thing, so I had to let her go, but considering she recently got married I assume that there are plenty of men willing to accommodate her. She wasn't low class either, she was raised upper middle class and she has a master's degree from an Ivy League school.