Women who vilify and demonize you for no good reason.

[CaptFinnBad]

So I just experienced this. Was seeing this woman for a couple months. It wasn't going to work (I saw it, she saw it)..

So decided to be friends and carrying having s3x because we had an awesome time together.

Then suddenly out of no where I'm being made out to be a villain.

Giving the dumbest reasons why I'm bad new, she's really clutching on straws.

I think her girlfriends have convinced her of something or a new guy has entered the picture.

But yeah. Why do some women do this ?

I genuinely didn't do anything bad. Do they actually believe their own bull****?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That's what is required for them to stop thinking about you in that way and detach. They have to poison you in their mind.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Then suddenly out of no where I'm being made out to be a villain

-What exactly did she accuse you of?

-Is there a grain of truth to what's she said, even if she's exaggerating, as most of humans do, when we're angry and hurt?

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Captain,
It's an outlet for their aggression,which is a reflection of the many frustrations in their lives....Take a look at Rickys latest post...Many of them always have to have someone in their gun sights,as Ricky says,make sure it's not you.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

-What exactly did she accuse you of?

-Is there a grain of truth to what's she said, even if she's exaggerating, as most of humans do, when we're angry and hurt?

My dog. She was begging me to stay the night. She was being super clingy but I had to get home to my dog.

So I said I'd be able to stay over if I was able to bring my dog with me on the weekend and id be able to help her sort her garden if I was there (something she was struggling with on her own ).

She loves my dog but stated she didn't want my dog in her house in the past (he's never been there ).

Her response to my suggestion said she didn't really want him there, I thought no big deal, understandable , Totally fine with her response. Just meant I couldn't stay over without my dog as I can't leave him home overnight on his own.

The rest of the evening was amazing. Didn't mention it again. Super into me. Tried to keep me there a little longer than planned by intuition s3x, I eventually went home.

Super sweet goodbye from her.

Next day I get texts about "breakings boundaries" , I'm manipulative, selfish for suggesting I could stay over if I was able to bring my dog with me on the weekend.


Then started to bring up stuff from weeks ago. Things that didn't make sense.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

Hi Captain,
It's an outlet for their aggression,which is a reflection of the many frustrations in their lives....Take a look at Rickys latest post...Many of them always have to have someone in their gun sights,as Ricky says,make sure it's not you.

She definitely has a few struggles going on in her life.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

That's what is required for them to stop thinking about you in that way and detach. They have to poison you in their mind.

This is basically it. I just don't get it though. It's such a childish way of thinking.

The situation with this woman could be summed up as. We're definitely not compatible long term , we both know it.

S3x is out of this world, we have so much fun together.

We had the most amazing night together in and out bed which brought up a feeling of closeness and connection in her. She knows this isn't meant to last. So caused an internal conflict in her.

To break this she turns me into a make believe villain to cut ties.

I know it was always going to be a temporary thing until one of us moved on but being made out to be a villain for no good reason feels so messed up you know ?

Especially by someone you've treated with respect and been a decent person too.

I guess I'm just starting to grow tired of this type of stuff.

 

[Pumax]

@Desdinova's point theory might play a role here.

What you went through, I saw a woman go through with a friend of mine, just because the opportunity to get back together with her ex presented itself. Then, She reacted that way.

Unfortunately, you weren't her number 1