"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women who vilify and demonize you for no good reason.

CaptFinnBad

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I literally just had this happen to me this weekend because I didn't text her back fast enough, mind you I was little sick this weekend,, and she got butthurt and started accusing me of using her for "Fun" I mean it totally came left field and unhinged, the text messages just sounded like projection and pure narcissism. I'm not sure if she wasn't using as an excuse to end the tyrst or if she is mentally ill; regardless, I blocked her.

On To The Next....

It's bizarre mate. Honestly I'd love to be able to go into their heads just to understand their batsh£t crazy thinking from their perspective.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon

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It's bizarre mate. Honestly I'd love to be able to go into their heads just to understand their batsh£t crazy thinking from their perspective.
I mean it's wild we started of hot and heavy sexting, her sending me nudes, she comes over a day or two later and we hook up.I get sick then all of a sudden it's talk about she wants a serious relationship and not "Fun" (her word for hook up) mind you no one forced her to come to my place and hook up. I think some women (Espeically older) try to control the situation when they feel it's not going there way but instead of handling it like a mature adult they rather crash out.

Regardless I didn't waste much time on this one but still it's like WTF
 

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I mean it's wild we started of hot and heavy sexting, her sending me nudes, she comes over a day or two later and we hook up.I get sick then all of a sudden it's talk about she wants a serious relationship and not "Fun" (her word for hook up) mind you no one forced her to come to my place and hook up. I think some women (Espeically older) try to control the situation when they feel it's not going there way but instead of handling it like a mature adult they rather crash out.

Regardless I didn't waste much time on this one but still it's like WTF
I would guess she wanted some comfort bonding after the hookup since you started off hot and heavy with the sexting. You got sick so unable to provide the comfort bonding she wanted, so she then tries to control things. Sucks she had buyer's remorse for something largely out of your control.
 

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I mean it's wild we started of hot and heavy sexting, her sending me nudes, she comes over a day or two later and we hook up.I get sick then all of a sudden it's talk about she wants a serious relationship and not "Fun" (her word for hook up) mind you no one forced her to come to my place and hook up. I think some women (Espeically older) try to control the situation when they feel it's not going there way but instead of handling it like a mature adult they rather crash out.

Regardless I didn't waste much time on this one but still it's like WTF
Mabye being "sick" could be something she uses to blow off guys she's not interested in. It could be her go to excuse to show lack of interest in a guy.

So when you got genuinely sick she projected and her mind started spinning.


I've also experienced with women when you get sick it puts them off balance and they start getting off balance and annoyed.

Mind you that was was with crazy chicks.

Just my take, could be a million different things lol
 
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