"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women who say they want a guy who challenges them intellectually

Marcopolo

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When a woman says she wants a guy who challenges them intellectually in a personal ad, I have kinda wondered what exactly that means to her. Somehow I don't think she means solving Ferment's Theorem together or discussing the flaws in Einsteinian physics. Is it just B.S. when she states this, or is it ******** for something else? Anyone have a clue?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ha ha ask her !

"whaddya mean ? are you a member of mensa ?
or is it a easy way to get free tuition ? ;-) "

"ok we'll start with some math; if you take your phone-number and add 100 what do you get ?"

/ scordate
 

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She want's ****y and funny. Verbal sparring. Ball busting. Find something in her profile and then sarcastically say that based on that it shouldn't be too hard to challenge her "intellect" She'll jump on it and the emails will start flying back and fourth.

Try and find a misspelling in her profile and bust on her about it playfully.

I have bagged more girls on the net by busting on them and giving them a hard time. They love it!

She's saying she wants a guy that will stand up to her and not be a wuss and can play around and be playful and flirty. Think little boy and girl on the playground and little boy pulls little girls pig tails and then runs - and she chases.......

gix
 

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Example........

Here's an OK example. Not the best but it's what I'm working at the moment. gix


ME: Nice smile :) You out of school for the summer or are you taking classes?

gix

HER: Thanks for the compliment. Yes iam still taking a summer course right know. I dont have a life!!!!!!!!!

ME: It's obvious that you don't have a life if you're online hittin on me on a nice day like this :p But I am pretty irresistable.........

HER: hahahah your were the first one to hit on me, and for your little info I am trying to work on line. thanks you

ME: Thanks you? I hope it's an english class you're taking :p Yeah, it was just a matter of time before you hit on me - I wanted to save you the trouble :p
 
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It's bullshyt. Reverse psychology.

She's trying to 'trick' you into thinking she is smart. She knows guys get tired of sifting through the endless supply of airheaded women out there. She's trying to make her value rise before you even meet her. Forget what she wants anyway. What do YOU want?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its just like when a woman writes " I am looking for someone to keep up with me" - same deal

Translation: You better go out of your way to make me happy cause I am a princess and I am used to it.

Usually when a woman writes stuff like this, she ends up being a misreable b1tch with very high standerds. She is already boasting how smart she is before you even had a chance to talk to her. Be Cautious.
 

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It means ZERO it is just another woman who probably has no clue what she REALLY wants. The game remains the same. I am a fairly intelligent guy so all this tells me is maybe I don't have to worry about talking over her head, and maybe, just maybe she is savvy enough to the game to see whats going on, and still be turned on, these are always the best types. Trust ME!
 

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Such a variety of opinions. I am beginning to think that sh doesn't really know what she wants. Few women actually intimidate me intellectually, and those that do are a welcome relief from all the airheads out there.
Man, after reading so many of those stupid profiles out there they all begin to mesh into one, and are just a rehash of the same old trite c**p. again and again and again. I am begining to be bored to tears reading them, and for the most part they are probably nothing like the real person. I think they are either trying to market themselves to the men they do want, or say things to intimidate and weed out the men they don't want.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by crowes22
It's bullshyt. Reverse psychology.

She's trying to 'trick' you into thinking she is smart. She knows guys get tired of sifting through the endless supply of airheaded women out there. She's trying to make her value rise before you even meet her.
Veyr true. She is just a prude and want you to think she is so smart....
Just take that as a bad sign if she stated that in her profile.
 

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
When a woman says she wants a guy who challenges them intellectually in a personal ad, I have kinda wondered what exactly that means to her. Somehow I don't think she means solving Ferment's Theorem together or discussing the flaws in Einsteinian physics. Is it just B.S. when she states this, or is it ******** for something else? Anyone have a clue?
in my town it's just all around BS. Women here want the guys who make me dumber everytime I listen to them talk.
 

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It just means

She doesn't want you to act like a pvssy.

She wants to be able to be **** and funny and be able to put together ideas.

Not much more than that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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