Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women who rant in their dating profiles

ThisNThat

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I am noticing an increased **tchfest women are starting to put in their profiles. It's like they have an axe to grind with the male community.

"I don't NEED a man, I WANT a man...I could do without one. I'm not going to take your bull!" (something like that)

Or some rant where you feel like you are being lectured and you feel no warmth from the woman, but only aggravation across the board. You can feel the sarcasm and condescention through the screen.

THEN, they write after the rant, "If you are offended by what I wrote, well...move on to the next one....I know what I want and won't settle!


Makes me wonder how their lives can be so miserable, why bring a man into their life you know they'll make miserable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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