"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women who post on craiglists

warrior1

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I occassionally read craiglists and notice a lot of woman say please be so and so age and something along the lines of at least 5'10. Even women that are like 5'1 say something like this. The worst part is that most of these women who post to meet men act very ****y... not sure if thats the proper word for women but they make themselves sound like they are the bomb or something.

And to tell everyone the truth, its usually the lesser attractive females that have pics up that say this. Usually the attractive looking ones don't write as much picky stuff like their counterparts. Has anyone noticed this? I see some hot babes post but not that many say plz be a so a so race and be at least 5'10. It's usually the females that look not that attractive that is so demanding.

Any comments on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AbsolutBeirut

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I am starting to doubt the authenticity of the Craigslist postings. All of these girls want the same things and they never respond to anything genuine. When I make fun of their postings like one that said she was BBW I told her to go on a diet, she responded immediately lashing back at me that I am an A-hole. How about those that promise to send back their pictures after you send yours. I just dont get if they are doing this to actually meet someone or just boost their lowly egos.
 
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