Women Who Follow You?

[dannycc]

I've become a semi-regular at a local cafe in the last couple of months.

There's usually a blonde gal there on weekends, and, like the rest of the female staff, she's taken a strong liking to me. She is a bit more obvious than others. She will rush to the counter to help me even if someone else is taking my order. Other times, she will just stare and smile at me very directly even if she is not helping me.

She took a little initiative today and started making a bit of small talk with me, which she has not done before. I didn't think much of it.

I left after a couple of hours and went searching for dinner. I was in line to order a sandwich, and glanced behind me. To my surprise the blonde gal from the cafe was in line directly behind me. I did a quick double take. I chatted with her briefly, but was a little startled by her presence.

I got the distinct impression she had followed me. The sandwich place is several blocks away from the cafe. It's a popular spot, but the distance from the cafe, her obvious sexual interest, and the fact that she was directly behind me in line just all seemed too much of a coincidence.

Anyone had a girl follow them around town?

She seems like a very sweet down to earth girl. She doesn't strike me as the type to be desperate enough to follow a guy around town.

 

[blind_one]

Might be a coincidence or it might not. To be honest it doesn't matter.
Strike the iron while its hot and you will find out her IL, since you are already talking, next time grab her number and you go get her.

Let us know how that works out for you.

 

[zinc4]

What are u wait ing for bang her....

 

[dannycc]

One thing I did notice yesterday is that she has a ring on her finger. She is either engaged or married. Quite young to be married, which is why I didn't check before.

A bit disappointing that she is married. I hope she is happy--she did follow another man all around town, so maybe not.

 

[Yewki]

Other times, she will just stare and smile at me very directly even if she is not helping me... One thing I did notice yesterday is that she has a ring on her finger.

Take some initiative already, find out if she's married or engaged.

Anyone had a girl follow them around town?

I mean, she showed up behind you at one place, right? Could have been a coincidence, and that's hardly "around town." Either way, if you like her... talk to her and escalate. If not, and you seriously think she's following you, tell her to stop. If she keeps following you, file a restraining order.

 

[G_Govan]

Women with high interest will follow you sometimes.

They are actually damn good at being able to cross your path at just the right time to get your attention. They're quite skilled at this.

I saw a chick leaving the gym, entering a parking garage. I checked her out but she didn't look toward me as I passed.

I'm in the gym working out and next thing I know, as I'm getting up from one piece of equipment to head to another I see her working out facing toward me making strong eye contact. It threw me off a little because at that moment I was piecing together who it was (the chick I saw leaving).

I get to the other machine and she boldly walks over and works out right in front of me, doing splits and everything. Looking right at me. I was still a bit shocked at how bold she was and I admit I punked out and didn't talk to her (had a sex fantasy about her later...).

Don't hesitate if you're attracted to a girl who does this. Unless you're a movie star it's exceedingly rare to experience this, jump on it.

 

[gravityeyelids]

I love when girls do this. They're being upfront and as direct as they can about their interest in you. You're still in a position of dominance. You don't have to dance around and game her for a while. You both understand that you're attracted to each other and you can begin to enjoy each others' presence quickly and without the bullsh!t. Now obviously be a bit standoffish and always make her chase you just a little bit.

I think it's kinda cute when a girl does this, and IMO the directness is attractive and flattering.

 

[dannycc]

Women with high interest will follow you sometimes.

They are actually damn good at being able to cross your path at just the right time to get your attention. They're quite skilled at this.

I saw a chick leaving the gym, entering a parking garage. I checked her out but she didn't look toward me as I passed.

I'm in the gym working out and next thing I know, as I'm getting up from one piece of equipment to head to another I see her working out facing toward me making strong eye contact. It threw me off a little because at that moment I was piecing together who it was (the chick I saw leaving).

I get to the other machine and she boldly walks over and works out right in front of me, doing splits and everything. Looking right at me. I was still a bit shocked at how bold she was and I admit I punked out and didn't talk to her (had a sex fantasy about her later...).

Don't hesitate if you're attracted to a girl who does this. Unless you're a movie star it's exceedingly rare to experience this, jump on it.

Great post and very informative.

What put a slight damper on this was that I noticed she had a ring on her finger at the cafe, so I kind of ruled her out.

She followed me for quite a while. The sandwich shop is 3 or 4 blocks away. Her timing was impeccable too: kept enough of a distance for me not to notice, but not enough so she'd lose me. And she wound up right behind me in line.