lol...it just means you don't feel pressure to plan for the future so you don't feel guilty and have mad drama when one of you wants to stop seeing each other. It's actually a good way to start any involvement because no one is usually bitter and the break up isn't ugly. Sometimes it can turn into more, but no one goes into it with any long term expectations.Phyzzle said:Nah, a f*ck buddy is not exclusive. Neither is a friend with benefits. When you're unoficially together, that's exclusive. Without being actually together.
So basically, you're always together, you have sex, you don't see anyone else, but "we're NOT boyfriend and girlfriend! I swear it!!"
Some college chick explained this all to me a few months ago. It's a tad loopy . . . :crazy:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Women who don't want anything serious, but don't want to be used either?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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This means that the hor wants to be treated like a woman!!!!!! DOES NOT COMPUTE!!!!!!!! Does not compute!!!!!!!!! Women are looking for serious - hors are not looking for serious!!!!Mindtrust said:
Iv been in this situation before.. I know exactly what you mean.Phyzzle said:Nah, a f*ck buddy is not exclusive. Neither is a friend with benefits. When you're unoficially together, that's exclusive. Without being actually together.
So basically, you're always together, you have sex, you don't see anyone else, but "we're NOT boyfriend and girlfriend! I swear it!!"
Some college chick explained this all to me a few months ago. It's a tad loopy . . . :crazy:
Exclusive though in this situation is fantasy from where i stand, this is totally different from being exclusive with a woman..
To me this is just two people having casual sex but with a promise to be faithful. Nothing more.
Exclusive to me, is a relationship.
lol this is confusing!!
Mindtrust.